Taking a Full Stride into Your Callings

by Michelle Gill
www.rebornjoy.com

Luke 1:38,39 "And Mary said, 'Behold, the bondslave of the Lord; may it be done to me according to your word.' And the angel departed from her. Now at this time Mary arose and went in a hurry to the hill country, to a city of Judah, and entered the house of Zacharius and greeted Elizabeth."

While I have had some trouble with my Achilles tendon, I was now having issues with my back muscles. I went to an experienced massage therapist who to me that to avoid pain in my Achilles tendon, I had stopped taking full strides. This practice had affected my entire muscular structure including my back. He told me to start fully committing to my steps and following each stride all the way through.

Immediately, I thought how my life is reflected in my physical body. When I thought of all the things I was certain God had called me to do, I realized I stepped into them without fully committing. For example, when He told me to run, I jogged for a while. When He told me to write, I took another class. When He told me to give, I did only to the extent it was comfortable for me. When He told me to go to a certain church, I quickly left after the last “Amen.” When He told me to pray for someone, I did until the passion waned.

I have been thinking about the power of belief. Luke 1 presents the difference between Zacharius choosing not to believe Gabriel right away and Mary fully committing the moment he spoke to her. Zacharius lost his physical ability to speak due to his lack of belief. In contrast, Mary was called “blessed” by Elizabeth because of her belief.

God is speaking all the time, but do I believe what He is saying? And if I did, what difference would that make? So as I practice stepping fully through my stride, I also practice believing Him and giving more focus and intention to his guidance. For example, do I need to help my daughter read an extra ten minutes instead of letting her read to me as I do the dishes? Do I need to make an appointment to write each week instead of waiting for the urge to strike?

What are some of the simple and not so simple things that He is speaking to you about that you could give more intention to, and fully believe Him in? What difference would it make if you did so? Whose life would it change? How much more of His power would we see, if we just believed Him?

God not only honors our belief, He delights in it. I had no idea how stopping short in my stride affected my entire body, not just the tendon I was trying to protect. I daresay that taking a full stride versus stopping short will make more difference than we could possibly imagine. But we won’t find out until we actually follow through.

How to Make a Coffee Filter Wreath (with Burlap Roses)

used with Permission by Shannon of Fox Hollow Cottage
http://foxhollowcottage.com/2012/10/how-to-make-coffee-filter-wreath-with.html
(Visit Shannon's website for a picture tutorial)

You Will Need:
1. A wreath form. (Mine is a Dollar Tree cheapy.)
2. Fabric to cover the form. (white is recommended!)
I used some white scrap fabric I had hanging around.
3. Glue and Glue Gun.
*Low temp is fine and what I used.
4. Coffee Filters! I used about 75 for my fat little wreath.
You can get these at the Dollar Tree.
5. Burlap. (optional for flowers)
You can use any fabric you like to match your decor!

Directions:
Step One-
Cut your fabric into a long strip (or 2) and wrap it around your wreath, then secure with glue. This will camouflage your wreath form and give your filters a little something more to stick to.

Step Two-
Get your filters and get comfy!
You’ll start be scrunching them up (so technical)
and getting the bottom into a point.
Then fluff out the ends and straighten up.
Finally, twist & pinch the end.

Step Three-
Start gluing. It’ll feel like a slow start to get the wreath looking full, but keep going and fill them in. I glued about a thumbs length of the twisted end section onto the wreath form.
See, it’s getting fluffier!!
I add a few to fan out on the sides and get a fuller, more uniform look.
I figure.. as long as it looks good from the front, right?
The wall won’t know ;)
I added some burlap roses to mine.
I thought it needed a little more texture and interest, which worked out great, because it’s even more versatile with that pinch of burlap.
After all that fluffing, gluing and flower making.. you should have yourself a wreath.
I think the coffee filter wreaths are sort of like fingerprints… so it won’t be exact!

Just love the wreath YOU made.
Mine is a little wonky, but it grew on me.

Lots of Christmas Ideas from Previous Newsletters!
http://heartfilledhome.blogspot.com/p/christmas.html

Lots of Recipes for Christmas!
http://heartfilledhomerecipes.blogspot.com/p/dessertsholidays.html

Precious Gems

compiled by Lois Breneman
A young child in our church asked once while we were learning the books of the Bible and came to Hebrews and James..... "Just who was it that bruised James??!" Can't you almost see the Father smiling at these precious things children wonder and say!! ~ Cyndi in Ohio

Eva (8) is learning the Old Testament books of the Bible. We were working on Joshua, Judges, Ruth. "Mommy?" Mia (5) asked, "Does Joshua judge us too, or just Ruth?" Bahahaha ~ Elizabeth in Virginia

In Kroger today...a very nice older lady to Brooklyn (4): "Those are some cute boots there, young lady!"
Brooklyn, while curtsying without hesitation, "Well thank you, old lady!"
Yep. ~ Lauren in Virginia

This afternoon in the car Josh (14) and Gracie (12) had a disagreement about what to listen to on the radio, so I said we should turn it off. Joshua said, "Look at Mom going all Solomon on us. Bring out the baby!" Gracie and I laughed hysterically over that! That boy is funny! ~ Penny in Virginia

You know you're in trouble when...You're at the dinner table, enjoying your family's company, talking about the day. You just finish telling a story and the almost 2-year-old chimes in and says..."Emily. Eat." Yep. Big trouble. ~ Emily in Virginia

"I miss Trigger, Shadow, Abbie, our Chickens, Florida (our fish), and our dead crab," said my girls ( 5 and 8) today. ~ Elizabeth in Virginia

Famous last words of a 7 year old.... "Umm, mom...why are you taking the trashcan to my room? ~ Jennifer in Virginia

Teaching Your Children the True Meaning of Christmas

Used with Permission by Blair Massey

The stores have put up their holiday decorations. Yuletide carols are being piped into shopping malls across the country. Ah, yes, the holiday rush is on.

It’s the time of year when the lines are long and shoppers are irritable. There are parties to go to, cards to write, baking to be done, a tree to get, lights to be hung and presents to wrap. Then there is the deluge of television advertisements that tell us what we must buy in order to make our loved ones happy.

The world has taken Christmas and turned it into a celebration of consumerism. For many children, Christmas is about what presents they are going to get. They have no idea what it is really about. What can we do as Christian parents to make sure our children know the true meaning of Christmas?

The answer lies in what we do as parents to put Christ at the center of our Christmas. If we’re too busy with holiday preparations to spend time teaching our children what Christmas is really about, then we can’t expect them to know the truth. The world will teach them its rendition and it won’t be about Jesus. But if we take the time to put Christ at the center of our Christmas, we will be giving our children the greatest Christmas gift of all: connecting with Jesus at a heart level.

Here are some ways you can teach your children the true meaning of Christmas. Begin by reading to your children the account of Jesus’ birth in the Bible. Next, discuss Jesus’ life. Read scriptures that show examples of how He loved and served others.

To make Christmas come alive for your children, teach them to imitate Jesus by following His example of serving others. I have listed some examples below for inspiration.

Before you make your plans please consider the following. Make sure that you choose an activity that will have a meaningful impact. The activity should also require your children to give of themselves in an up close and personal way. And last but not least, be sure to participate in the activity with your children. You’ll be teaching them a valuable lesson in serving, one that they will remember as they get older.

1. Teach them to give
“In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ ” Acts 20:35.
◾Have them choose one of their own toys (in good condition) or purchase a new toy out of their own money to give to a child who otherwise would not receive a toy this Christmas.
◾Give a coat or shoes to a homeless person.
◾Bring toys and clothes to an orphanage.
◾Help a less fortunate family for Christmas by providing all the fixings for a Christmas meal, presents for the children and clothes if needed.
◾Pack bag lunches to give out to the homeless. Include a sandwich, juice box, cheese and crackers, Wet Ones, bus pass, a list of addresses where they can get a hot meal and shower, change for a phone call, and invitation to church.

2. Teach them to share
“Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share.” 1 Timothy 6:18.
◾Take a basket of homemade cookies to a neighbor you don’t know well and invite them to church.
◾Have a friend over for dinner who doesn’t know about Jesus and share the Good News with them.
◾Have your child invite a school friend to Christmas service at your church.

3. Teach them to care
“A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families, he leads forth the prisoners with singing; but the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land.” Psalms 68:5-6.
◾Visit a convalescent hospital and sing Christmas carols.
◾Visit a children’s hospital. Bring cookies and games to play.
◾Bring a meal to someone who has a chronic illness.
◾Invite a military person who is away from home to spend Christmas dinner at your house.

3. Teach them to serve
“Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave – just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Matthew 20:26-28.
◾Volunteer to make and serve a meal at a homeless shelter.
◾Spend an afternoon at a senior citizens’ home. Bring cookies and reading material, sing Christmas songs and serve in any way that may be needed.
◾Take an elderly person shopping or do errands for them.
◾Do yard work, pet care or housework for someone who is not physically able to do those things for themselves.
By teaching our children to imitate Jesus this Christmas season, we will keep the true meaning of Christmas alive for this generation and for the next. Jesus is the real reason for the season.

Christian Lifestyle expert Blair Massey is devoted to helping Christian women around the world get their home, family and life organized. To get organized and start living the amazing life you were created by God to enjoy, sign up for her FREE newsletter now at www.christian-homemaking.com

Lessons from Grandma

by Jennifer Clarke - ADivineEncounter.com 

Used by permission

My Grandma died last Friday.

In a way that felt too fast. Like I had been cheated out of “goodbye.”

But also in a way that was merciful. Like for her sake, I was glad she didn’t linger. Or suffer.

It’s not lost on me how blessed I am to have been close with three of my grandparents. Many people never know theirs at all, having grandparents who die early in their lives, or who are separated by distances too great to be crossed on a regular basis.

It turns out I’m doubly blessed, because not only have I known my grandparents, but I’ve also had grandparents worth knowing. My grandparents are among the very best people I’ve ever encountered.

And so in Grandma’s memory, I’d like to share twelve lessons from her. Lessons she taught; lessons she lived; and lessons that will continue to impact me as I look back fondly on her life and her legacy.

Life Lessons from Grandma

1.)Lavish people with grace. Grandma was overflowing with true graciousness and a genuine love for other people. People of all ages flocked to her, finding in her presence unconditional love and kindness. She was quick to forgive; quick to overlook offenses; and quick to give people the benefit of the doubt.

2.)Leave people better off than you find them. The small gestures Grandma offered people made a world of difference in their lives. Sometimes it was the glow of her contagious smile or a warm hug. Sometimes it was a hot meal (preferably a bowl of pinto beans with a side of corn bread). Often it was a nice, long chat or a handwritten note. Notice there’s nothing terribly profound on this list. There didn’t have to be. Grandma’s consistent displays of unconditional love in very ho-hum ways had an effect on people that was far from ho-hum.

3.)Prize your family. I can’t think of anything that was more important to Grandma, besides her faith. As a young woman, all she wanted was to get married and have babies. To the point that she defied her parents’ desire for her to go to college and eloped with my grandpa. Her family has been her priority ever since. She listened earnestly to each one of us, no matter our ages. She fed us generously with homemade cobblers and potato salad that no one else can quite manage to duplicate. She religiously sent birthday and anniversary cards letting us know how proud she was of us. She delighted in our company, in a way that left us feeling pretty special and very loved.

4.)Don’t be a snob. Yes, she prized her family. But she was the furthest thing from cliquish. In her eyes, there was no such thing as an outsider; only newcomers she welcomed with open arms – literally! She loved her in-laws just as much as her own offspring, and they couldn’t help but return the sentiments. Whether you were a cashier, a fellow church member, a neighbor, or the man who mowed her grass, you were greeted with cheerfulness and genuine interest.

5.)If you’re going to give a hug, make it a good one. 
Grandma gave hugs that left no doubt in your mind that you had been hugged completely; but even more, that you had been truly welcomed…accepted…embraced. With no prerequisites required and no strings attached. Her hugs were lingering, revealing that she had all the time in the world for you. Her hugs were firm, indicating that her regard for you was resolute. Her hugs were tight, as she clasped you in her arms even as she clasped you in her heart.



6.)Use your freedom. Heaven help you if you were a government official who made choices Grandma didn’t agree with! You’d be sure to receive a handwritten letter or two or a dozen during your term. Why? Because she took seriously her role as a citizen of this great country. She was part of a generation who is aware of the high cost of our freedom, having had many loved ones serve to protect it.

7.)Truth doesn’t change. She held firmly to biblical views of right and wrong, and she wasn’t ashamed to talk about it. Her heart ached for the moral decline of this country she loved so. She couldn’t comprehend how people could so defiantly reject God; reject morality; and reject the principles on which our nation was founded. In her mind, truth was absolute — unchanged by passing trends, and unfazed by passing time.

8.)Prayer changes things. Grandma was a prayer warrior. Here’s just one example: she prayed every day without fail for a granddaughter who had gone astray. I know it thrilled her heart and affirmed her faith to see the radical transformation in my cousin’s life over the past couple of years. She even got to see that granddaughter’s entire family reunited this past summer. This cousin will be the first to tell you that the prayers offered on her behalf are what made the difference in her life.

9.)You make time for what’s important. Grandma’s priorities were reflected in the way she spent her time — namely, God and people. Not being able to drive, she would’ve had a good excuse to sit out a Sunday service or two, and most certainly a Wednesday night prayer meeting every now and then. But she remained faithful in church attendance to the end, thanks to the church bus ministry and the kindness of fellow church members.

One example of Grandma’s prioritizing of relationships is the family reunion she and my grandpa established more than 30 years ago. As their children grew up and started families of their own, Grandma and Grandpa realized the need for a time set aside every year for reestablishing family bonds. And so for a whole week every summer the Angoves have gathered for some concentrated family time in a state park. The young cousins who grew up in the 80s look forward to bringing their own children to this much-beloved spot each year. It occurs to me that lots of families talk about wanting to spend more time together. But my grandparents’ decision to start this tradition decades ago reveal that they truly prioritized their family’s time together.

10.)Change can be good. I was doubtful when Grandma’s six children bought her a computer about a dozen years ago.  I didn’t know any elderly people who used a computer, and I couldn’t imagine Grandma having a desire to spend time learning how to use one. Much to my surprise, she became the queen of email in no time, relishing the lightning fast method of sending notes to her loved ones.

11.)Count your blessings. This was her favorite hymn and unofficial motto. She was an eternal optimist; even in the worst of times, she held fast to the belief that God was still in charge and that tomorrow would be a better day. Counting her blessings is what allowed her to see the best in others. Counting her blessings is also what prompted her to embrace the blessings brought by change, rather than being overwhelmed by the fears that plague so many.

12.)Point people to Jesus. And that’s really what it’s all about, isn’t it? At Grandma’s funeral, more than one person remarked that when they were in her presence, they had a distinct sense of being in the presence of Jesus. That’s how well she loved. How well she lived.

I can’t begrudge my grandma’s Savior for calling her to her heavenly home. After all, she wasn’t truly “mine.” She wasn’t even her own. She was bought with a price. (I Corinthians 6:19-20) And since I was bought with that same price, I can only look forward to the day when I’ll get another one of those hugs I’ll miss so much in the meantime.

Homemade Hand Cleaner

This homemade hand cleaner is quick and easy to make, very effective, kind for your skin, and inexpensive. The essential oil gives you the expected effect in cleaning your hands well, while the aloe and Vitamin E oil nourish your hands, rather than dry them out.  No harmful chemicals either!

3 Tbsp. aloe vera gel (I bought some through i-herb)
5 drops immune blend or melaleuca tea tree essential oil
1 tsp. Vitamin E oil
1 Tbsp. filtered water
Note: If you use aloe vera gel straight from the plant, you may need to omit the filtered water.

Put the mixture into a dispenser tube to carry in your purse.

There are no chemicals or alcohol to dry out your skin!

21 Questions Your Son Really Needs You to Ask Him

November 2, 2014 - by Lisa Jacobson
http://club31women.com/author/vienna
Used by permission

He is not exactly a big talker. 

That son of mine.

He is kind, thoughtful, and a man of action.

But not necessarily a talker.

More of the strong, silent type, if you know what  I mean?

And I don’t mind it so much that he doesn’t say a whole lot. I tell him that’s fine by me.

He doesn’t have to be a talker . . . but he does need to be a communicator. 

Not merely for my sake, but for the sake of his friendships and future relationships. Because even at the age of 12, this young man already knows he hopes to marry andbecome a family man someday.

Just like his dad.

And marriage requires communication.

And parenting requires communication.

And friendship requires communication.

So this sweet guy of mine is learning to communicate. We’re practicing now with our eye on the future.

And you know what I’ve found? I’ve discovered that what works the best is if I ask him the questions.

He needs me to start the conversation. 

 21 Questions Your Son Really Needs You to Ask

1. What would you say was the best day of your life so far?
2. What was the worst day of your life…and why?
3. If you could pick one meal for me to make you, what would it be?
4.  What mountain do you wish you could climb?
5.  What do you admire most about your dad?
6.   What kind of music really moves you?
7.   What is your favorite Scripture verse? And why that one?
8.  What things does your sister do that frustrate (or encourage) you?
9.  And what does your brother do that annoys (helps) you?
10.   What do you think you’d like to do for a job when you get older?
11.   Why did that (movie, song, conversation. etc) disturb you?
12.   What’s the best thing about being a part of our family?
13.   What’s the hardest part about being a middle child (or youngest, oldest, only) in our family?
14.   What sorts of things in this world make you angry? Wish you could fix?
15.   Can you describe what the perfect day would look like to you?
16.   What would you say are your top 3 movies? And what is it about them that you like?
17.   What skill do wish you could be better at? What we can do to help you improve it?
18.   What kinds of things make you want to cry?
19.   What character qualities do you especially appreciate in a friend?
20.   What do you wish I understood better about you?
21.   Do you know how much I love you?

So I ask the questions and then try to listen with all of my heart.

Because when our oldest son left for college and I asked him what was the most loving thing I’ve ever done for him as his mom?

His said it was that I listened.

I don’t want to ever forget that.

So ask your son what’s on his mind. What’s on his heart?

Then listen to what he has to say.

Communicate and build a close relationship.

He needs you, mom.

Sometimes more than he can say.

In His grace,

Practicing Gratitude

by Laura George
http://thornsandbelles.blogspot.com/
Used with permission

It was an early summer morning at the hotel where I work. Occasionally while frequenting the industrial sized coffee pots used to prepare coffee for our event guests, I pass by members of the hotel's banquet staff. One such staff member, Jenn, was there preparing glasses for an event this particular day. She greeted me with a cheerful good morning and a compliment about how much she liked the top I was wearing.

Jenn is always smiling and complimenting those she comes in contact with. In fact, just a few days prior, she said my dress was pretty and that she wished she were as tall as me to be able to pull that style off. A week or so before the dress compliment, Jenn said my hair looked good. A month or so before that, she complimented me on my purse as I was walking out for the night.

I had an extra few minutes the morning we met at the coffee pots, so I decided to give her more than the standard "thank you" I always follow her compliments with. Thanking her not only for the compliment she had just given me, but also for the fact that she always compliments me, I then told her it makes me happy to see her at work. “Jenn,” I began, “you are always so nice to me. Your kind words impact my day in a positive way, and I just wanted you to know that.”

Expecting Jenn's reaction to my words to just be, "you're welcome," I was surprised when she began to share her own story with me. While Jenn continuously poured iced tea and water into glasses for the banquet function she was working on, she came right out and said, "a few years ago I almost died. So now I try to compliment everyone I see. I hope it makes them feel good because I am so grateful to even be alive."

She went on to say that while suffering from extreme weight loss and back pain so excruciating she was confined to her couch, she became addicted to prescription pain pills. Jenn was popping so many pills the pharmacy couldn't keep up and had to turn her away. Sadly, the medicine didn't even work! Nothing did. Over time, Jenn wasted away to around eighty pounds. Near death, Jenn was on her couch one night internally battling the horror of her impending death with the peace of dying and being freed from her pain. Her body was so sick, so weak, that her mind was letting go.

Later that night, Jenn's mother found her unconscious on the couch and paramedics brought her to the hospital. Spending three weeks under the care of various doctors, Jenn's weight increased and many tests were performed. Day after day, no one could tell her what was causing the pain she was experiencing. I can't imagine the level of frustration she must have felt knowing that something inside her body was broken and the experts just couldn't figure out what or why.

A neurologist finally came in and was able to determine that her issue was nerve related. He started her on a new medication and the pain instantaneously disappeared. Jenn is still taking this non-narcotic nerve medicine, and has not taken a prescription pain pill in years.

Completing the conversation, Jenn smiled up at me with her adorable grin and the lovely sweetness she displays on her face. She said, "I know people struggle all the time, but often they don't even know they're going through a crisis situation until the situation is over with. If I can say something nice to everyone I see, then maybe it will make a difference and give them the will to keep going."

Jenn makes a point of paying everyone she sees a compliment as often as she can because she is happy to be alive. In my opinion, Jenn has mastered the art of practicing gratitude because her compliments are genuine and come from her own extremely thankful heart.

There is always something in life that can irritate us, cause us anger or angst. Often our feelings are justified because our pain, whether emotional or physical, is real. However, particularly as we approach the season of Thanksgiving, there are three basic concepts we can adopt that will help us with the art of practicing gratitude.

One, we all have something to be grateful for. Some of us, like Jenn, have gone through some very difficult things in life and come out on the other side. Do you have parents, children, a spouse, friends, or other family members that love you, or that you love? Do you have food on your table, a roof over your head, and a Lord who walks with you daily? We all have at least one blessing we can be grateful for. To routinely focus on the bad things happening is a mistake. Focus instead on the good things that have already happened!

Second, turn your own gratitude into an opportunity to help others. As you go through your day, look people in the eye, smile, greet them, notice their needs, and find something to genuinely compliment them on. It can make a big difference in how they view their day.

And third, borrow the gratitude idea my friend at dinner had. Ask others around you what they are most grateful for over the past week, month, or year. Challenge them to be creative. Many of us do that during the Thanksgiving meal, which is an excellent way to focus on gratitude. But take it a step further. Make it something you do regularly. It can turn negativity right around to the positive. As a result, God will be honored and the people around you will be happier!

"Let us show gratitude, by which we may offer to God an acceptable service
with reverence and awe." Hebrews 12:28

"Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:18

How to Play with your Child

by Decca Knight
Wife, mother, counselor, and parenting educator
www.blueridgeparenting.com

Used with permission (originally printed in Bella magazine October 2014)

This sounds simple, right?  Playing with your child can't be that hard!  I am surprised, though, at many parents' lack of "skill" in this area.  When talking with parents, I often ask how they play with their child.  Answers usually include watching TV, playing video games, and practicing sports.  But this isn't play; this is simply existing "beside" your child.

Do you remember how we used to play?  Yes, I know that I sound like an annoying old lady reminiscing about those nostalgic years (for the record I am only 29).  We used to play clapping games, build forts in the woods, roll down grassy hills, and create villages out of Lincoln Logs and blocks.  We role-played, brainstormed creative fantasylands, and stared into each other's eyes until someone blinked.  Such interactions strengthened not only our creative minds, but also our relationships.  They fostered an authentic connection with those around us. 

Such play, however, is often difficult for parents.  There are various reasons for this.  First off, we have to relinquish control to our children.  We have to allow them to create and lead the play.  This means that if they want to build a precarious block tower - and then knock it down with abandon - we let them.  If they want us to play house with them and the refrigerator is in the bedroom, we don't correct them.  If they want us to stomp through the mud in the river bottom with them, we tamper our anxiety about ruining our clothes.  Think about the joy you would have felt as a child if an adult had played with you in this way, allowing you to reach the bounds of your joy and imagination.  But as adults, we often "get in the way" of our children, because of our own judgment and discomfort.

Also, many parents struggle in playing with their children because adults tend to make everything educational.  Yes, we want our child to be the next Einstein, but they spend enough time at school learning and studying.  When they are not in school, they should be allowed to engage in free play.  If a child is out in the woods collecting acorns, we shouldn't turn it into a game of addition and subtraction.  If a child is lying in the grass, looking at cloud shapes, we shouldn't try to identify the various types of cloud formations.  If a child is engaged in creating a nature journal, we shouldn't scold them for misspellings.  We shouldn't suck the joy out of playing; we just need to let our children "be".

So, when playing with your child, step back.  Allow them to drive the play, create the stories, get dirty, and exist in the bliss that is childhood.  We all know that this time is fleeting, so allow your child to bask in its wonders. 

Commit to Be a Covering

"Reborn Joy" is the meaning of my name, great title for my life, and our website address.  In this section of the newsletter, I share some things about living my life with Jesus.  
Hope you enjoy.  - Michelle Gill  www.rebornjoy.com

Matt. 21:22, I Pet. 3:1,2

At the ending of my first marriage, my only real regret was not committing to pray for my husband daily during our marriage.  Life and immediate needs took priority of the time I had in prayer.  One of the greatest blessings that we have the power to offer our husbands is a daily covering of prayer.

I remember being so convicted of this after Russell's death when I looked back on our five year marriage.  I believe another reason that I did not pray fervently for him was that my life would have had to change too much.  What an underlying root of selfishness that rested in me!  It takes effort to concentrate in prayer unless there is a pervasive need.  It takes time and no one has extra time.

Yet there is no other greater gift I could give someone.  During my single years in the in-between, I felt a need to stand in at times in prayer for those I knew who had no one to intercede for them.  I also prayed for my husband before I knew who he was, as if I were already his wife, because God had told me that I would marry again.  Now, once again, life tends to get in the way and concentrated prayer for Mark does not even cross my mind at times.  I have seen the difference in him when I am praying regularly for him and when I am not, as I am sure he can see the same in me. 

Anything worth doing takes effort and life takes discipline.  I now commit to cover my man daily in the wonderful incense of sincere prayer.  I offer it to him without his knowing as a sacrifice because focus and discipline do not come naturally to me.  There is nothing greater I can offer him of myself.

"For the Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the person who seeks Him."  Lam. 3:25

I know the power of His Holy Spirit is able to fill my husband, protect him, and meet every need that he has and then some.  I commit to stand in for him and cannot wait to see all that God has in store for us.  I can use the excuse that Mark is a godly man who prays about every area already, but God calls us to pray for one another and He blesses that agreement with Him.  Agreeing with Him and coming boldly to His throne to talk with Him, knowing He gives to those who ask.

Whether you are married or not, who can you offer the covering of prayer to?  Is there a lack of follow through in your life to something God has called you to in prayer?  I challenge you to commit and open your eyes to all God can do.

Next month.. Taking a Full Stride into the Life God is Calling You To....

More on prayer from past Heart to Heart Newsletters:

http://heartfilledhome.blogspot.com/2011/01/celebrating-fathers-how-to-pray-for.html

http://heartfilledhome.blogspot.com/2013/07/how-to-pray-for-your-children-and.html
http://heartfilledhome.blogspot.com/2011/01/strength-and-power-through-husbands-and.html