Sit Still, My Daughter!

by J. Danson Smith

Sit still, my daughter! Just sit calmly still!
Nor deem these days—these waiting days—as ill!
The One who loves thee best, who plans thy way,
Hath not forgotten thy great need today! 

And if He waits, ’tis sure He waits to prove
To thee, His tender child, His heart’s deep love.

Sit still, my daughter! Just sit calmly still!
Thou longest much to know thy dear Lord’s will! 

While anxious thoughts would almost steal their way,
Corrodingly within, because of His delay—
Persuade thyself in simple faith to rest,
That He, who knows and loves, will do the best.

Sit still, my daughter! Just sit calmly still!
Nor move a step, not even one, until
His way hath opened. Then, ah, then, how sweet!
How glad thy heart, and then how swift thy feet! 

Thy inner being then, ah, then, how strong!
And waiting days not counted then too long.

Sit still, my daughter! Just sit calmly still!
What higher service could’st thou for Him fill? 

’Tis hard! Ah, yes! But choicest things must cost!
For lack of losing all how much is lost!
’Tis hard, ’tis true! But then—He giveth grace
To count the hardest spot the sweetest place.

Parenting Insight You Can Use Now

by Dr Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN - http://www.biblicalparenting.info/ - Used by permission

Patience is a virtue but few children understand its benefits. Children tend to live for the present and typically want their desires satisfied fast.

One of the ways we help children learn patience is to teach them how to wait. They may not be able to wait long at first but the idea of waiting doesn't have to be like a foreign language. "Mom, could I have a snack?" "Well, it's 2:30 now. Let's have a snack at 3:00."

Sometimes a child will try to interrupt your conversation on the phone, or your interaction with another child or adult. One mom said, "I've told my son that if I'm on the phone and he wants to talk with me, that he can come over and gently put his hand on my arm to communicate that he wants to talk to me. I will either pause from my conversation to talk to him briefly or sometimes I'll just put my hand on his, communicating that I know he's waiting."

Talk to child about the maturity involved in waiting. You might define the character quality in practical ways that your child can understand. Patience is waiting with a happy heart. Or, patience knows that good things come to those who can wait.

Realize that the resistance your children exhibit to your "patience training" exercises is just the confirmation that they need to learn this valuable quality. They don't need harshness, but firm limits are good for children. Your work in this area will help them be more successful as they grow. Demanding children are unhappy children and indulging them rarely brings about peace. What they really need to learn is patience.

For more information about developing character qualities like patience in your children read the book, Good and Angry, Exchanging Frustration for Character in You and Your Kids by Dr Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN.

What a Day! Ladies, Can You Relate to This?

Author unknown, Contributed by Dianna Bishop from Ohio

Dear God, are You still awake? Have You got a minute or two?
You're pretty good at understanding and I really need to talk to you.
You see, Mommy came to tuck me in, like she does every night.
I was trying to play a trick on her, since she can't see without the light.
I was going to close my eyes and pretend to be asleep.
But when I heard her crying, I didn't dare let out a peep.
She started talking to you, God.  Did You hear the things she said?
Could You hear what she was saying as she stood beside my bed?
Why would Mommy be so sad? I wondered just what I had done, 

And then I began to remember it all as she named them one by one...

This morning we worked in the garden, but, honest, I really didn't know
That if I picked all those little yellow blooms the tomatoes wouldn't grow!
Charlie and I were trying to be helpers, 'cause I know that's what Mommy needs,
But I don't think she was too happy with us when we pulled up carrots instead of weeds .
Mommy said we should stop for the day.  She decided we had helped quite enough.
I sure had worked up an appetite ... I didn't know gardening was so tough!

We had peanut-butter and jelly for lunch and I shared too much, I guess,
But I didn't realize until I was done that Charlie had made such a mess.
Mommy said she needed a nap.  She had one of her headaches today.
She told me to keep an eye on my sister and find something quiet to play.
Well, God, do You remember all those curls You gave my little sister Jenny?
We played barber shop ... very quietly ... and now, well, she doesn't have any.
Boy, was Mommy mad at me ... I had to go sit on my bed.
She said never to cut "people's hair" again. I guess I'll practice on Charlie instead.
We sat and watched poor old Albert, I just knew he must be so bored,

Going round and round In the same place all day, Wouldn't You think so, Lord?
I didn't think it would hurt to let him out for a while. I mean, mice need exercise, too.

By the way, have You seen Albert lately? He's been sort of missing since two.

Mommy sent us outside for the rest of the day. She said we needed fresh air.
But when Daddy came home she told him she was trying to get something out of her hair.
We thought Mommy needed cheering up, so we decided to brighten her day.
But, God, did You see the look on her face when we gave her that pretty bouquet?
We had gotten a little bit dirty, so Mommy said to get in the tub

And "Use soap this time," she reminded, "And please don't forget to scrub."
Charlie didn't like the water too much, but I lathered up real good.
I knew Mommy would be so proud of me for cleaning up like I should.
I went downstairs to the table, but during dinner it started to rain...
I'd forgotten to turn off the water, it seems, and I hadn't unplugged the drain!
I decided right then it was just about time to start getting ready for bed,
When Mommy said, "It's sure been a long day," and her face began turning all red.
I lay there listening to Mommy as she told You about our day.
I thought about all of the things I had done and I wondered what I should say.

I was just about to tell her that I'd been awake all along,
And ask her to please forgive me for all of those things I'd done wrong.
When suddenly, I heard her whisper, "God, forgive me for today...
For not being more understanding when those problems came my way...
For not handling situations in the way You wanted me to...

For getting angry and losing my temper, things I know You don't want me to do.
And, God, please give me more patience, help me make it through another day,
I'll do better tomorrow I promise ... In Jesus' name I pray."

Wiping her eyes, she kissed me and knelt here beside my bed.
She stroked my hair for a little while ... "I love you, precious," Mommy said.
She left the room without ever knowing that I'd been awake all the time.
And God, could we make it our little secret? You know, just Yours and mine?
I'm sorry I was so much trouble today, I really didn't mean to be...
Daddy says, "It's tough being a kid sometimes, but I think it's harder on Mommy than me.
Well, goodnight, God. Thanks for listening.  It's sure nice to know You're there.
I feel so much better when I talk to You 'cause You always hear my prayer.
And I'll do better tomorrow, I promise ... just You wait and see!
I'll try not to be much trouble again, but, God, please give more patience to Mommy.
Just in case!  Amen.