Friday, January 27, 2012

Pam's Story

Author unknown ~ Thanks to Linda Klein in California and Annamarie Kresge in Virginia for sending this!
In a recent email, I read about a woman named Pam, who knows the pain of considering abortion. More than 24 years ago, she and her husband Bob were serving as missionaries to the Philippines and praying for a fifth child. Pam contracted amoebic dysentery, an infection of the intestine caused by a parasite found in  contaminated food or drink. She went into a coma and was treated with strong antibiotics before they discovered she was pregnant.

Doctors urged her to abort the baby for her own safety and told her that the medicines had caused irreversible damage to her baby. She refused the abortion and cited her Christian faith as the reason for her hope that her son would be born without the devastating disabilities physicians predicted. Pam said the doctors didn't think of it as a life, they thought of it as a mass of fetal tissue.

While pregnant, Pam nearly lost their baby four times but refused to consider abortion. She recalled making a pledge to God with her husband: If you will give us a son, we’ll name him Timothy and we’ll make him a preacher.

Pam ultimately spent the last two months of her pregnancy in bed and eventually gave birth to a healthy baby boy August 14, 1987. Pam’s youngest son is indeed a preacher. He preaches in prisons, makes hospital visits, and serves with his father’s ministry in the Philippines. He also plays football. Pam’s son is Tim Tebow.

The University of Florida’s star quarterback became the first sophomore in history to win college football’s highest award, the Heisman Trophy. His current role as quarterback of the Denver Broncos has provided an incredible platform for Christian witness. As a result, he is being called The Mile-High Messiah.

Tim’s notoriety and the family’s inspiring story have given Pam numerous opportunities to speak on behalf of women’s centers across the country. Pam Tebow believes that every little baby you save matters. I pray her tribe will increase!

Parental Success

This is a wonderful parenting concept that really worked for Penny in Virginia!  Gracie is 9 and Joshua is 11.  I sure wish I had thought of this when our kids were small!

Mom: "Gracie, you need to put those socks in the laundry room." 
Gracie: "I'll do it in a minute, okay?" 
Mom: "Okay, but I'm not going to remind you.  And what should be your consequence if you don't pick them up in a minute?" 
Gracie: "Maybe I should do it now." 
Parental success for the day!

Mom: "Joshua, I need you to get me your backpack from the car." 
Joshua: "Can I get it in a minute?  I'm working on my Legos." 
Mom: "Sure, but I'm not going to remind you to get it for me.  So, if you forget, what should be your consequence?" 
Joshua: "Eternal suffering.  Oh, never mind.  I'll go get it now." 
Parental success #2 for the day!

Precious Gems

Feb., 2012

Here is something a very special friend shared with me that is just precious. Her son is a lawyer and recently relocated his family to a small town where the law firm is within walking distance of their home enabling him to spend more time with his family. One day he was home sharing lunch with his daughter, Sarah, around 2-1/2. That day as she was eating her pizza "Sarah style" (she would take it apart and eat the topping and work on the crust last). As she was breaking the crust, he heard her say, "This is the body of Christ broken for you." I am not sure if she dipped it into her milk or if "communion" ended with that precious comment, but Sarah's dad was so thankful for that moment with his daughter who seemed to "get it" at such a young age. Let us all be aware that little ones are watching and listening with their little minds and hearts and that communion with Christ can be as formal as worship or as simple and precious as "the breaking of pizza crust" by a child. ~ Joyce in Virginia

Austin (4) talking to his mommie on being born: "...and then I just popped out your belly...and daddy catched me." Yep, something like that. :) ~ Emily in Virginia

My kids spent the day with their Gramma and Papa the other day.  My mom was telling Madelyn (5) that Madelyn's oldest cousin couldn't wait to be old enough to stay home by herself so that she could watch TV and eat junk food.  Madelyn said she wished she could do that too.  When asked what junk food she would eat, Madelyn said, "Brussel  sprouts and broccoli." ~ Liz in Washington 

It's snowing!  Melody (2) said this morning while watching the snow fall, "Now, we got work to do.  GO build more snow penguins!" ~ Rosie in Central Asia

My granddaughter, Ryan Elizabeth (4) absolutely loves her purple unicorn pillow pet, named "Uni."  One evening after Ryan was sleeping, their dog got hold of Uni and tore her to shreds!  It was a good thing Ryan didn't see the destruction!  Her dad ran out that evening to get an identical pillow pet for his daughter.  The next morning, Ryan came downstairs and exclaimed cheerfully, "Uni looks so clean and shiny this morning, doesn't she!"  Thank goodness she never knew, but looked on the bright side! ~ Lois
 
During a heavy thunderstorm storm, my 8 year old grandson, Justin, said, "Apparently God got "Skylanders" for Christmas too!  Right now He is playing with "Lightening Rod!" ~ Lois

In the fall I helped two of our grandchildren, Justin, 8, and Ryan Elizabeth, 4, to sew their own machine embroidered designs and make them into pillows.  They loved that!  When our 3 year old grandson, Daniel, visited later, I started to do the same thing with him, and he chose his own embroidery design, a juicy watermelon.  He was sitting on my lap as I was threading my machine and having trouble getting it to sew on that particular evening (it needed a new needle).  Daniel grew tired of waiting, although he didn't actually complain.  Then he sweetly and kindly looked up at me and made this suggestion: "Grammie, why don't you just surprise me!"  He meant by sewing it myself and sending it to him! ~ Lois

Saturday, December 31, 2011

A Tip on Microwaving Food

by Lois Breneman - 2012 - Heart to Heart

With all the concern about microwaving food in plastic containers, this tip is a workable solution.  You don't need to go out and purchase lots of glass containers.  I've been doing this for a long time and find that quite a few dishes already in my cupboards have been working great for heating food in the microwave.  Corelle dishes are especially convenient because of their light weight.  Oneida salad bowls that I bought from Red Lobster in the 90's are a favorite in cooking frozen vegetables and other food items for just the two of us, with a cereal bowl serving as the lid.

Try combining some glass dishes you already have in similar combinations:

A salad bowl + a cereal bowl as a lid
A cereal bowl + a saucer as a lid
A salad bowl + a salad plate as a lid
A serving bowl + a cereal bowl as a lid
A larger serving bowl + a salad plate as a lid

I'm sure you get the picture, but just in case you're confused, I have posted several photos at  http://heartfilledhomerecipes.blogspot.com

If you have Corningware casserole dishes, they work great as well, and they seem to last forever!  I'm still using the ones we got as wedding gifts more than forty-three years ago.  If you don't have any, yard sales and thrift shops are good resources to find them.  Clean them up with a Magic Eraser and they will look like new.  By the way, sometimes I also use a plastic microwave cover as a lid (which does not touch the food).  I found it at Walmart about twelve years ago.  So as you see, there are practical ways of getting around the plastic/microwave issue.

Discovering Bonus Space Right in Your Home

by Lois Breneman - Copyright 2004 - Revised 2012 - Heart to Heart

All of us have probably thought how we need more storage space in our homes.  First of all, getting rid of all those things we really don't need will cut way down on the needed storage space.  I'm working on that, but it's easier said than done.  Then how about investigating every available space in your home and putting it to good use if you are still in need of more storage space?  Look around your home for items that serve as a decoration, but allow for hidden storage as well.  In many cases extra storage is available and just waiting to be found!  Here are some clues as to where you can discover extra bonus space right in your own home!  Think vertical! 

Hang a clear vinyl pocket organizer (shoe bag) inside the linen closet to hold Band-aids, bandages, tape, small tubes of medications, a thermometer, ball syringes, etc. Everything will be easy to see and locate quickly when needed.

A clear vinyl pocket organizer is effective when hung inside a broom closet to store Goo Gone, window cleaner, all purpose cleaner, rubbing alcohol, and other cleaning supplies.  Be sure to tuck in plenty of microfiber cloths or terry cloth squares, which I prefer.  An old bath towel (with no holes) can be cut into eighths to make the same number of wonderful cleaning cloths.  After rounding the corners, simply sew around each one using the zig-zag stitch on a sewing machine to prevent unraveling and lint.  These work great for numerous cleaning jobs and are virtually free!


Hang another clear vinyl pocket organizer inside the coat closet for sunglasses, gloves, scarves, fold up umbrellas, a lint brush, and other things you might need to grab before you go out the door.

Hang more clear vinyl pocket organizers inside your children's closet doors, unless the doors are louvered. I'm sure you will agree that small things stored in these pockets are so much better than scattered all around their rooms! And everything will be visible through the clear vinyl!

Store often-used information, taped inside kitchen cabinet doors.  A chart of family illnesses, giving each name, date, illness, and remedy, is a valuable chart to have at your fingertips.  Food substitutions are another handy piece of information, and I know we can all think of more information we'd like to keep handy.


If you are in the process of building or remodeling your home, you may want to consider adding one built-in locker for each family member - near the door, all in a row. I have seen this plan carried out in the home of a friend and the mother raved how they all loved the convenience of keeping each person's coat, boots, gloves, school books, backpack, etc. right by the door. The mother also loved how each person was responsible for his or her own personal locker!  A great idea!

If you have a deep closet or pantry where things seem to get lost, store items on trays that can be pulled out, so you have full access to everything and are able to find what you need.

Small round wooden tables, purchased for as little as $5 (on sale), can provide lovely hidden storage! With a round tablecloth draped down to the floor, no one will ever know what you have hidden there and it provides a nice decorative touch to a bedroom, living room, family room, great room, dining room or sun room. A round piece of glass can be purchased to set on top of the tablecloth for protection from spills. A large round lace doily or a smaller square piece of contrasting fabric placed over the tablecloth can change the whole appearance.

Use empty decorative ceramic containers for storage, as well as decoration. Examples: Pretty ginger jars, canisters, covered ceramic dishes, vases or teapots.  Large painted milk cans can hold umbrellas.

In the bathroom install shelves to set on top of or above the tank of the commode for additional space. Every bathroom can use more storage and this is an excellent vertical space to use.

Use a hanging shelf that slips over the shower head to hold shampoo, conditioner, and razors.  Racks are also available to hang on the side of a shower, when using an adhesive hook on the tile.

A shallow overhead shelf or two situated up high at the end of the bathtub is another possibility.

Slide under-the-bed boxes -- where else but under the beds!  I'm sure you can think of something to store in those (gifts, out-of-season shoes or clothing, etc.).  If a bed doesn't allow enough height for a box to fit under the mattress, the feet of the bed could be raised up a little on four blocks of wood (about 4" wide with a hollowed out area to hold the feet of the bed).  My husband rounded the corners as well, in order to prevent sore toes that might kick into the wood by accident.

Have you thought of storing things under sofas and chairs with skirts? Yes, even there!  Sofas with skirts are perfect for this, but not so easily found these days.

A shallow cabinet (about one or two inches deep) would be sufficient to hold necklaces and bracelets with cup hooks or even push pins to hold them. Hang it behind a bedroom door where it would be protected by a rubber door stop. A beautiful painting could even be attached to the front. Or use the space in the back of your bedroom closet to hang necklaces and bracelets.

Many closets have wooden strips around the wall for the shelves. Insert push pins into the wood to hang necklaces and bracelets. This works great and keeps them out of sight.

Hang bookshelves along the wall above a desk or computer to make good use of that unused space.

In many homes it would work to enclose the area under the stairs for storage, with a door. It's amazing how much can be stored there.

Inside a closet door, attach lightweight plastic-covered wire shelves designed to slip over the back of a door or fasten onto the inside of the door. This will hold so much and keep all the contents right at your fingertips.

If a closet has too much empty space between the shelves, add another shelf or two for more organized storage and better use of the space.

Look carefully at each closet and find a way to use all the available space. By using baskets, square plastic tubs or plastic shoe boxes (with lids) on closet shelves, they can be stacked to maximize the available space. Be sure to label all containers to make it easy to locate various items.

Under-the-shelf storage can be purchased in plastic-coated wire to be slipped on a shelf to make use of that unused space under the shelf.

Building shelves directly above your washer and dryer is a great idea, because that is normally wasted space. Use either open shelves or enclosed cabinets for laundry supplies and many other items.

Stacking makes use of extra space. At least three six drawer organizers (without the wheels attached, of course) can be stacked to provide organized storage for papers, CD's, DVD's, office supplies, scrapbooking supplies, rubber stamping supplies, sewing supplies, crafts, etc.

Add an extra make-shift shelf to the floor of a closet, simply by raising the shelf up with two bricks on each end. This will provide extra storage space for shoes. Use a board that you stained or painted to match the room.  You could even cover it with fabric or matching contact paper.

In a child's room, stuffed animals could be stored and displayed in mesh, hanging from the ceiling in a corner of the room. You can find fish netting in stores for this purpose.

Shelves built around one or more walls about 12 to 18 inches below the ceiling of a child or teen's room provide not only storage, but decoration as well. The personality and interests of your child can be displayed for your enjoyment and theirs.  This is a good place for trophies as well.

Continue looking for unused space in your home. Hopefully these ideas of finding extra bonus storage space in the home will help us all to be more organized.

How to Cook Easily Digestible Beans

by Lois Breneman - 2012 - Heart to Heart
 
You will be amazed at what apple cider vinegar will do for all of your bean recipes!  (The addition of apple cider vinegar for digestion and the omission of salt for tenderness)

Rinse a bag of dried beans in a colander, removing any stones.  My favorites are Great Northern Beans.

Cover with twice as much pure water as beans (4 cups beans to 8 cups water).

For every cup of beans, add 1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar.  Stir.  Allow to soak overnight or at least 8 hours.

Drain liquid, rinse well, and replace the water with fresh pure water in a two to one ratio.

Add a tablespoon of olive oil or coconut oil. 

It's very important NOT to add any salt until the beans fully cooked.  Salt will prevent them from getting soft.

Cook until soft (about 45 - 60 minutes), checking the tenderness.

Season with salt, pepper, and herbs.

Serve some of the beans and freeze the remaining beans for later (a time-saving method of cooking).
 
Great Northern Beans may be substituted for chick peas when making hummus.
Use a few beans in tossed salads, in quesadillas, soups, casseroles, taco dip, and in beans and rice dishes.

All grains and seeds will be more digestible when soaked, using this soaking method.
 

For bean recipes, please go to http://heartfilledhome.blogspot.com /recipes
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Favorite Devotionals

by Lois Breneman - 2012 - Heart to Heart

This is a short list of devotionals I’ve used at one time or another. If you’re searching for something new to encourage and guide your life this year, you might try a couple of these.


Streams in the Desert by Mrs. Charles Cowan

His Utmost for My Highest by Oswald Chambers
Experiencing GOD Day-by-Day by Henry T. Blackaby and Richard Blackaby
Praying the Names of God by Ann Spangler
Green Leaf in Drought by Isobel Kuhn
Jesus CallingEnjoying the Peace in His Presence by Sarah Young
Dear Jesus by Sarah Young
His Princess – Love Letters from Your King by Sherri Rose Shepherd
Our Daily Bread (Free)
   RBC Ministries, PO Box 2222, Grand Rapids, MI 49501-2222  or  www.odb.org 


Personally sometimes I enjoy using a hymnbook during my devotional time.


I have also used Beth Moore's book, Praying God's Word, in my quiet time.
But let's not forget that the Bible should always be the main part of our quiet times.

Creative "Build-A-Snowman" Kit

by Lois Breneman - 2012 - Heart to Heart

In some parts of the country this winter, warmer than usual temperatures have kept away the snow.  Are your children or grandchildren praying and begging for the white fluffy ice crystals?  If so, this activity might help!  Encourage and help them prepare now for a future snowy day by gathering everything they will need so their snowman or snowlady can stand in your front yard in style!   But who said a snowman can't be sitting in a chair?  Be original.  Have your children draw out their ideal snowman or snowlady on paper, and plan what they will need to dress their snowy masterpiece as soon as enough snow arrives. 


If you need inspiration or more ideas, check out the 25 cent bin at Goodwill or a thrift store for fun accessories.


For the hat, you could decide on a stocking cap, black felt hat for a man or a straw hat with flowers for a snowlady.


A colorful scarf could be an actual scarf or simply a piece of fabric you already have with raw edges.


A carrot nose could be kept in the refrigerator until needed, of course, but for the eyes and nose you will need coal, large dark stones or large buttons (toothpicks might help to hold them in place).  Dark colored Tootsie Pops would work even better (possibly grape flavored).
 
For the mouth, a red or pink ribbon would work.  If you have wire ribbon, you can shape it into a mouth even better.  Or use several radishes or red pepper slices to form a mouth.  Even red buttons could be held in place with toothpicks to form a smile.

For arms and hands, if you want an easy way out, gather twigs.  But you could also easily form arms around the front of your snow person's body.  One year our snowlady held a bouquet of flowers, which meant we didn't need to worry about forming her hands, since the flowers hid them.  Your snowperson could also be warming his hands with a muff (a piece of fabric or fake fur wrapped around where the hands would be).  Gloves could be placed over the hands as well.


You may want to be even more creative by dressing your snow person in a coat, but keep the size in mind when making the snow body.


For a snowman with shoes or boots, fabric could be wrapped to look the part, or you could use a pair of real shoes or boots, if you don't mind a puddle inside them or taking a chance that they'll be carried away by a stray dog.


If you want to get a message across to those who pass by your home, give him a sign to hold. 


Snow animals are lots of creative fun as well!  A bear, lion, turtle, dog, cat, or whatever your heart desires.
 
Teaching your children and grandchildren to plan ahead in something as mundane as building a snowman, will help them learn the importance of planning ahead for more important things.

Precious Gems

Jan., 2012

I love the things that Ethan (7) finds to do to keep himself busy in his free time.  His current project is recopying the Declaration of Independence into one of his notebooks. ~ Liz in Washington
 
Kylie (5) and I pulled into the parking lot at Longwood Park.  "Oh, look, Grandma, the park's closed for cleaning."  I couldn't figure out why she would say that until I saw an elderly gentleman sweeping a metal detector back and forth over the mulch. ~ Eileen in Virginia  (This quote is excerpted from the upcoming release, Wit & Wisdom from the Wee Ones by Eileen Rife, www.eileenrife.com)

Savannah (4): "Mom, Brookie (1) took my toy!"  Mom: "Choose to be a peacemaker and just let her have it."  Savannah: "Fine but in the middle of the night when I wanna sleep in your bed you don't let me 'cause you aren't a very good peacemaker, now are you?" ~ Lauren in Virginia

You know you have a toddler when you find your husband's deodorant in the kitchen utensil drawer. ~ Lori in Virginia