Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Kaleidoscope of Life

by Jalisa Wenger - Used by permission
 
An array of sparkling colors
Set in perfect symmetry
Constitutes a changing picture
Which we cannot fully see.

 Gems of variegated brilliance
Congregate with somber stones.
Deeper shades enhance the beauty
Of the richly colored tones.

 Amid rubies in resplendence
Near the sapphire's brilliant hue
Set among the amber earth tones,
Jewels of white enhance the view.

 Sparkling diamonds carved by hardship.
Glowing pearls formed in pain.
In the Great Designer's wisdom
Hardship brings us greater gain.
 
Though we cherish vibrant patterns
And we're loathe to see them go,
Yet they too must be relinquished
To the circulating flow.

 Though our lives are ever changing
Still our hearts can be at rest.
For the Great Designer uses
Only colors He sees best.
 
O thou afflicted, tossed with tempest, and not comforted,
behold, I will lay thy stones with fair colours, and lay thy foundations with sapphires.
And I will make thy windows of agates, and thy gates of carbuncles, and all thy borders of pleasant stones.
And all thy children shall be taught of the LORD; and great shall be the peace of thy children.
In righteousness shalt thou be established: thou shalt be far from oppression; for thou shalt not fear:
and from terror; for it shall not come near thee.
Isaiah 54:11-14

Sunday, July 13, 2014

Organizing Your Home

by Debbie Williams, Debbie@organizedtimes.com
Copyright 2007, Used by permission 


One of the key rules in organizing and decorating is to utilize vertical space. Often we place furniture around the room with nothing above it, forming a nice horizontal line. There is a ton of unclaimed storage and visually appealing space right above the furniture line! For most organizing projects, you have four choices: hang it, put it in a drawer, store it on the floor, or shelve it.

Getting Started ~ Gather several boxes labeled: To Keep, To Trash, To Sell, Undecided. Begin sorting. Don't try to find a place for everything until your items are sorted. Group your items by category. Decide what will be folded, what will be placed on hangers, what will go into drawers. By planning wisely during your sorting process, you have eliminated the need for many storage items. Use what you have around the house, then buy specific sizes for the articles you need to organize.
Closet Space ~ Up off the floor!! Use multilevel rods for hanging items. Bins and shelf dividers keep folded items stacked. They are inexpensive to buy and can usually be found in discount stores or home stores. The time you save sorting through things on the floor or in drawers for purses and accessories will be well worth the small investment. This will not only free up valuable drawer space, but can eliminate the need for chest of drawers altogether.  When organizing your closet, keep all blouses together. Sort by color, casual or dressy, long sleeved or short sleeved. Do the same for skirts, dresses, slacks and jeans.
Kitchen Capers ~ Stack it Up. Use plastic or wicker in-baskets and go vertical to utilize counter space. Don't spread; stack. Purchase wire shelves for pantries and cabinets at your discount store. These double the space for dishes, pots, and pans. Lid organizers and baking tray racks store stackable pots and pans.
Hang On ~ Hang on. Use over-the-door hangers or door-mounted holders to display pantry items. Holders for seasoning envelopes, spice boxes, and plastic wraps consolidate these elusive items once and for all. You can even buy under-the-shelf organizers for paper plates, napkins, and coffee filters.
Junk Drawer ~ No more junk drawer? No way! Just use any type of plastic basket or cutlery organizer for your junk drawer, and clean it out routinely.
Pretty Is As Pretty Does ~ Since counter space is at a premium, don't display all your knickknacks on the countertop. Hang framed prints rather than resting them on easels. Consolidate fridge photos with a magnetic mat, or adhere a magnetic sheet to each picture creating your own photo magnets. Store tall utensils in pottery or your favorite pitcher. This makes your favorite things do double duty, creating more drawer space and reducing countertop clutter.
Kid Clutter ~ If you have a two-story home, upstairs toys are not dragged downstairs, they stay in the bedroom or playroom. Keep a few toys on a small shelf, in a wicker basket or toy bin downstairs in the family room. These must be cleaned up each night before bedtime.  Downstairs push or riding toys must stay downstairs and off the steps.
To further utilize vertical space, install shelves and paint them to match the wall. Hang toy hammocks for stuffed animals. Spray paint a long shower tension rod, wrap with Velcro strips, and stick up stuffed animals.
Old soda crates found at flea markets can be cleaned up, painted, and will house treasures of all kinds: collections (shells, rocks, key rings, kids meal toys). Smaller versions can be purchased at craft and discount stores.
Interior decorators encourage us to keep our collections, but to consolidate rather than scatter them for drama. Encourage your child's creativity by enlisting their help for novel solutions for storage. Give them a budget, make a list of things to contain, and see what they come up with. Perhaps they'll surprise you and suggest taking a box full to their favorite children's charity, or have a garage sale to raise money for newer toys. Involving your kids in the planning, prioritizing, sorting, and containing stages ensures better (not perfect) participating in the maintenance of clutter. And who knows? You may actually nurture a minimalist of your own in the process. Or a packrat with incredibly organized closets.
In the lower grades of elementary school, the classrooms are set up in learning centers. And to contain the clutter in the classroom, Miss Crabtree has a strict rule of putting a toy away before taking out another one. This may seem strict in your own home and does not work with every child. With my own son, I have the "three toy rule": he may play with three toys, then it's time to put them away before dragging out another one. It works well with puzzles, books, and other like items. If you start young, they may continue this "clean as you go" rule throughout life.
Small plastic shoe boxes are perfect for Legos®, Barbie® clothes and accessories, and Hot Wheels. Find the totes a size larger with handles on the top for easy carrying to and from the play area.
Larger tubs hold blocks, play food and dishes, and other pieces that just seem to multiply in the night.
Save the extra large tubs for train sets, car tracks, doll accessories, and sports gear.
Flat under-the-bed boxes are wonderful for out of season clothes and toys. Most closets are not large enough for toys and clothes, so why not store unused toys as you would clothing: kites, beach gear, and baseball gear is stashed during winter months; football, hockey stick, and ice skates are stored during the summer.
By using some of these organizing tips, you will reclaim storage space and cut down on the clutter in your home. Use the basic principles of clutter containing for each area in your home. By containing clutter, you'll find yourself well on the way to becoming a bit more organized.
__________________________________________ Debbie Williams is an organizing strategist and parent educator who offers tools and training to help you put your house in order. She is the author of "Put Your House In Order." Learn more at http://www.organizedtimes.com

A Tender Act of Kindness

         This little story emphasizes how meaningful a tender act of kindness is to young and old alike!  I hope you enjoy it! http://mywebpages.comcast.net:80/singingman7/Twinkies.htm
 
A blind person can see kindness and a deaf person can hear kindness, because it is felt from deep within the heart.

Remembering Senior Citizens throught the Year

by Lois Breneman, © 2008, Heart to Heart Newsletter


Many of us have aging parents or grandparents who tend to be lonely and in need of a tender loving hug, a phone call, a card or a letter.  When it comes to gifts for an older person, it is difficult to know just what to give an older person to express our love and care for them.  When we ask for ideas, they most often say, "I don't need anything.  I already have all I need."  Many times they are trying to get rid of their extra personal possessions, because of down-sizing their homes and they certainly don't need new appliances or knick knacks.  So just what is a friend or loved one to give them?  Here are a few ideas. 
Give a sturdy decorated box (covered with fabric or gift wrap) filled with fresh fruit and snacks from the grocery store that they enjoy.  A shoe box lined with tissue paper works well.  You might bake muffins, cookies and bread for great additions!   Add a jar of jam made from only fruit.  A nice warm quilt or throw would be a cheery welcome on cold winter evenings as well.
Often elderly people living alone in their homes do not eat well, because they don't feel like cooking for just one or two people, and they will appreciate their favorite foods being ready to eat in an instant.  You could prepare several of their favorite dishes in multiple small portions and give to them already frozen, to use as needed.  Examples might be soups, casseroles, quick breads, muffins, mini meatloaves, chicken, mashed potatoes or mashed sweet potatoes.  Package several of the same food item together in a larger freezer bag. 
Prepare a book of stories, memories and pictures for your parents or grandparents.  They will cherish that for sure!  Have all the grandchildren together to make a musical cassette tape for the grandparents.  They can sing some hymns and other songs.  I know grandparents would appreciate this gift for a long time to come. 

Give coupons -- one for each month -- for something you will do for them.  A back rub, foot rub, clean the bathrooms or the entire house, cook a meal in their home, offer to set up and take down some Christmas decorations for them, bake some cookies or muffins while you visit with them, give a piano concert just for them, give a foot massage, watch a Gaither Homecoming video with them, read a book to them, listen to their own childhood stories, help them to write checks and keep records, etc.  Many older people don't get nearly enough hugs and tender touching as they need, so a good back rub would be so appreciated.        

An aquatic garden with a Betta fish or a birdfeeder with black oil sunflower seed would provide hours of entertainment and enjoyment.  Give a "Reacher," or "Grabber," a long-handled instrument used for picking up things from the floor without bending or for reaching things on a high shelf without climbing up on a stool or chair (about $10).  Give a long handled sponge for applying lotion to the back, without the help of another person. (about $6)  How about a heating pad?  The previous three items can be found at most drug stores.
If your loved one is living in an assisted living facility or nursing home, a nice wreath for their door would be a welcome gift.  Be sure to also provide a wreath hanger.  An even better idea would be to change out their wreath to keep it seasonal.  Since they have limited space to store things, offer to store wreaths from other seasons for them in your home.  A good radio / CD player would be a very welcome gift, along with CD's of hymns and music they would enjoy.  A calendar with scripture verses or family pictures would be enjoyed all year long.  Calling cards are wonderful so they can keep in touch with friends and family on their schedule.  Even if they are fed three meals a day in the facility, snacks would be a welcome treat.  Take them a single rose or a few roses in a vase for many fragrant sniffs and smiles of contentment, but since many roses today have no fragrance, be sure the ones you give do.  If you enjoy sewing, ask if you could do any mending or special sewing for their room - make a pillow or dresser scarf. 
Hopefully these ideas will be helpful for a birthday, as well as Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day, Christmas or any time you want to bring extra happiness and joy to an elderly loved one or friend to let them know how much you care.  Send cheery cards.  If their sight is mostly gone, but their hearing is reasonable, send them a musical card.  Tell them how much you love them and care about them.  Above all else, faithfully pray for them, and let them know that you do.