Tuesday, July 28, 2015

How to Preserve Fresh Basil

by Lois Breneman

This afternoon I harvested some of our fresh basil from the herb garden mixed in with one of our flower gardens which my husband lovingly tends. The peaches, bananas, and red onions from the grocery store are just for additional color in the photo.








 





















The basil leaves were chopped in the food processor and frozen in a freezer bag.  After it is frozen it will easily break apart so just a small amount can be added to a dish while cooking.

Saturday, July 4, 2015

Reducing Harmful Compounds While Grilling Meats

by Lois Breneman

We've all heard how grilling meats can be unhealthy for us, but there are ways to make it work for our good health.


Marinating meats for hours beforehand in liquid mixtures that contain rosemary and other herbs and spices can dramatically prevent harmful compounds that can form while grilling meats at high temperatures. 

The simple and tasty solution is to marinate meats in antioxidants such as rosemary, thyme, garlic, oregano and/or other spices before grilling to drastically reduce any harmful effects that normally would form when grilling meat.

Even essential oils of rosemary, thyme and oregano can be used to replace the actual herbs for adding delicious flavor and good health, but go easy.  Only a drop or two of each is needed.  Not every brand of essential oils is safe to ingest, so check into that first.  I keep my essential oils for cooking in my kitchen cabinet, along with others that I use when making smoothies.



Excellent essential oils to use in grilling are rosemary and thyme.  Garlic, oregano, and others also add to your good health.

Charred meats are a real health problem, so be sure to keep the temperature lower and be careful not to burn the meat.  If you do, remove those burnt parts before consuming.

So why not give your meats extra flavor as well, while you treat yourself and your loved ones to better health!

Friday, July 3, 2015

12 Plants for Your Bedroom to Help You Sleep

July 2, 2015  by 


12 Plants For Your Bedroom to Help You Sleep

There’s nothing worse than tossing and turning all night, before being awoken by the sound of your alarm clock just minutes after you finally manage to nod off! These sleepless nights can take their toll on our energy, productivity, mood and overall quality of life.

One way to ensure a better quality of sleep is to fill your home with beautiful flowers and plants. Not only do they look great and bring vitality and life to your living spaces, but they can have fantastic relaxing and purifying benefits – which in turn can promote a healthy sleeping pattern.

With stress and anxiety causing half of all insomnia issues, it’s a good idea to fill your home and bedroom with a variety of plants that have a calming effect. After all, studies clearly show that spending time in nature reduces stress levels, so why not simply bring nature indoors?

In addition, poor air quality from pollution, odors and molds can impact our breathing, thus making a good night’s sleep seem next to impossible. The good news is there are a variety of plants that can purify the air while you sleep – in fact NASA did a whole study on it!

We’ve compiled this list of 12 great plants to help you sleep better, based on their calming and cleansing effects:


Jasmine

12 Plants For Your Bedroom to Help You Sleep
This exotic plant has a gentle, soothing effect on the body and mind. It has been shown in one study to reduce anxiety levels, leading to a greater quality of sleep.
Not only that, but this research suggests that the positive effects of such a high quality sleep lead you enjoy increased alertness and productivity during the day.
With such beautiful pink or ivory blossoms, there seem to be no downsides to adding a Jasmine bloom to your boudoir!


Lavender

Who doesn’t love the scent of lavender? It’s also probably the most well-known of all plants when it comes to inducing sleep and reducing anxiety levels. Research backs up these claims, with lavender scents shown to slow down heart rate, lower blood pressure and levels of stress.
In one study, the smell of lavender reduced crying in babies, sending them into a deeper sleep; while simultaneously reducing stress in both mother and child – something all new mothers will be happy to hear!
In women, lavender has been shown to increase light sleep, and decrease rapid-eye movement (REM) sleep and the amount of time to wake after first falling asleep, with opposite effects in men.
While there are a host of lavender scented products on the market to help you get a full night’s rest (from scented sleep masks to lavender mattresses) why not go for the most natural and cost effective option – a beautiful lavender plant placed on your nightstand.
Want to try a lavender plant in your room? You can purchase a potted lavender plant for indoor use here.


Snake Plant (Mother-in-Law’s Tongue)

One of the most recommended plants for improving indoor air quality, the Snake Plant is a hardy and easy to care-for plant … always a plus!
What’s great about this plant is that it emits oxygen at night time whilst simultaneously taking in carbon dioxide – something we naturally produce when breathing.  All this leads to a purer quality of air and a better night’s sleep.
The Snake Plant also filters some nasty but common household toxins (namely formaldehyde, trichloroethylene and benzene) from the air.

Aloe Vera

12 Plants For Your Bedroom to Help You Sleep

Listed as one of NASA’s top air-improving plants, the fantastic Aloe works much like the Snake Plant – it emits oxygen at night, making for a more restful slumber. It’s also one of the easiest plants to grow and maintain – it tolerates ‘neglect’ well and so doesn’t require frequent watering.
Dubbed the ‘plant of immortality’ by the Egyptians, it reproduces easily so if you buy one you’ll soon have an Aloe plant for all the rooms in your house. You can even pass on the gift of happy sleep to your family and friends! Keep it on your bedroom window as it does need a lot of direct sunlight.
You can also use the gel from the Aloe Vera leaves as a topical treatment for minor cuts and burns, insect bites, dry skin and lots more! It’s simply a must-have plant in every home.

Gardenia

With glossy evergreen leaves and beautifully scented blossoms, Gardenias are a popular plant choice for bedrooms. Studies indicate that keeping one in your room may help you achieve a better quality of sleep, with claims that it may be as effective as Valium in relieving anxiety and promoting sleep.
However, gardenias can be tricky to maintain as they require a lot of attention in order to keep their luscious leaves and delicate flowers. Indoor gardenias should be kept in a bright room, but not placed in direct sunlight. But if you suffer with insomnia or anxiety, investing a little time in one of these beautiful blooms could be a cheap and healthier solution to taking pills!


Spider Plant

12 Plants For Your Bedroom to Help You Sleep

Not to be confused with the Snake Plant, the Spider Plant is also a champion cleanser of air. The NASA tests showed it to remove around 90% of the potentially cancer-causing chemical formaldehyde from the air. Since formaldehyde is found in common household products like adhesives, grout and fillers, it’s a good idea to keep one of these plants around.
In addition to cleansing the air, it will also absorb odors and fumes as well as sustaining oxygen levels in the room, promoting better sleep.
About six to eight waist-high Spider Plants per person are recommended in the bedroom.


Valerian

The Valerian is a perennial flowering plant with sweetly scented pink or white flowers that bloom in the summer.
While the blossoms were used as a perfume in the 16th century, the root has been used as a tea or tincture since ancient times, with Roman physician and philosopher Galen prescribing it for insomnia. Newer research has shown that Galen was right in his prescription of Valerian Root – simply inhaling its scent will help you fall asleep quickly, and will ensure you enjoy a better quality of slumber.
In addition to keeping one on your bedroom window (it needs full sun for 6 hours a day), why not add a few of the petals to your bathwater to help you drift off?


English Ivy

Another one of NASA’s top plants for purifying the air, English Ivy is simple to grow and only needs moderate exposure to sunlight.
Studies have shown that this leaf can improve symptoms of allergies or asthma – which all sufferers know can seriously impact both the quantity and quality of sleep. The American College of Allergy, Asthma & Immunology reported that, in a 2005 experiment, English Ivy removed 94% of airborne feces and 78% of airborne mold in just 12 hours! As mold can affect our breathing, it’s definitely a plant to have on hand for a great night’s sleep.
This evergreen vine looks great in an indoor hanging basket, or placed on a ledge where the leaves can trail down. It’s toxic to kids and pets though, so make sure to keep it out of reach!


Peace Lily

12 Plants For Your Bedroom to Help You Sleep

Not just pleasing to the eye, the Peace Lily is another of NASA’s superstar plants, helping to filter out harmful benzene, trichloroethylene, and formaldehyde toxins.
The moisture given off by these striking flowers can boost a room’s humidity by up to 5%. This suppresses airborne microbes which can lead to allergies, and also helps relieve those irritating dry noses and throats that keep you awake all night.
A nice shady position (out of the reach of pets and children) and weekly watering is all the Peace Lily needs – that’s not too much to ask in return for a great night’s sleep.


Bamboo Palm

Also known as a Reed Palm, this small plant is a fantastic air purifier. Ditch your chemical-laden air fresheners in favor of a few of these pretty palms and say goodbye to airborne smells and toxins.
Not only will you be able to enjoy your home’s pure, fresh air during the day, but you’ll enjoy a fantastic night’s sleep too.
Given its exotic origins, the Bamboo Palm will bring a tropical, warm feel to your bedroom. It’s fairly easy to care for – just keep the soil moist (but not wet) and place the plant in indirect sunlight.


Gerbera Daisies
These bright and cheerful flowers couldn’t help but put you in a good mood! With pink, orange, yellow and white, they should be a welcome addition to any room – and not just because they look good.
They also release oxygen at night, which helps you breathe easy while you snooze. If you suffer from apnea or allergies, then these daisies are definitely recommended.
A word of warning to the novice gardener – as they are prone to fungal diseases Gerbera Daisies need extra special attention, particularly in relation to watering and light levels.


Golden Pothos

With its marbled, heart-shaped leaves, the Golden Pothos is another exceptional air purifying plant according to NASA.
Those with a busy schedule will particularly welcome this ivy-like vine. Not only will you have a better quality of sleep but you need not worry too much about nurturing it – a couple of hours of morning sun and a little water once a week is all it requires.
It makes a great hanging plant too – which curbs its invasive nature and keeps its mildly toxic leaves out of the reach of pets and children.


When Adding Plants to Your Home:

  • Always check if they are toxic to children and animals to ensure they are suitable for your family.
  • Remember to wipe the leaves every week or so to ensure the plants can effectively do their job – just look at it as the equivalent of changing the filter in your air purifier!
  • Choose a good mix of those that purify the air and those that induce sleep through their scent for optimum results.
  • NASA recommend between 15 and 18 air-purifying plants in an 1800 square foot home, with a few of these in each bedroom.

Egg Carton American Flag Craft for Kids

To find this and more Independence Day crafts, check out the All Free Kids Crafts site which encourages sharing. http://www.allfreekidscrafts.com/Kids-4th-of-July-Crafts/Egg-Carton-American-Flag
Egg Carton American Flag Craft for Kids

If your family eats a lot of eggs save those big egg carton boxes! There are so many craft ideas to make with them such as this American Flag. It's a fun art project for the kids to make on Memorial Day or the 4th of July!
Materials Needed:
  • 18 count egg carton
  • Red, white, and blue paint
  • White paper
  • Scissors/ Paintbrush
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Start by painting the 4 egg carton cups in the left corner blue. Then have the kids paint red stripes in all the "crevasses." After the red paint dries, grab some white paint and cover the tops.  Have the kids free-draw 4 stars and cut them out (just flip them over to cover the pencil marks). Glue them to the blue part of the flag and you're done! Add some ribbon on top to hang it up if you want.

Blessings Journal

Used with permission by Joy at Artful Homemaking

Please see the full tutorial at
http://www.artfulhomemaking.com/2011/11/blessing-journal-tutorial.html
 
 
A lovely reader requested a tutorial for the gratitude journal mentioned in this post...she's probably already made hers by now, but here is a simple how-to in case anyone might be interested!  
Here are the supplies you'll need:
  1. A composition notebook (I got these very cheaply during the back-to-school sales).
  2. Cardstock and/or scrapbook paper.
  3. Glue (Tacky glue and/or glue stick).
  4. Rubber stamps and ink pad (optional).
  5. Stickers, buttons, ribbon, lace, or other items to decorate with (optional).
  6. Pencil or pen.
  7. Scissors.
First, I used a piece of cardstock to cover the front of the notebook.  I just align the edge of the paper with the edge of the journal and trace around it with a pencil.
 
Next, I cut out around the traced line.  I use tacky glue on the back side of the cardstock and then apply it to the front of the notebook.
 
You can repeat the above steps for the back of the journal if you want it covered also.  
 
I decided I wanted some ribbon on the edge, so I first applied some fray check to keep the ribbon from fraying and then set it aside to dry.
 
You can decorate the front any way you wish, with whatever looks good to you.  Now the ribbon is applied and the front is decorated.
 
I also like to cover up the inside of the front cover.  I grabbed a piece of scrapbook paper and got it lined up where I wanted it.
 
Then I traced around the notebook, cut out around the traced line, and glued it down.
 
Here is the finished inside:

 
Enjoy!  I also wanted to note that there might be other or even better ways to do this.  This is just something I came up with after seeing similar journals.  I made this for one of my daughters this afternoon, and then she spent a happy time decorating the inside pages with rubber stamps and markers.  She'll probably also add stickers later.  The possibilities for this idea are limitless (prayer notebook, diary, blessing book, travel diary, etc.).

I'm Joy, follower of Jesus, wife to my best friend, and mom to five blessings. I'm not a perfect homemaker, but I love spending my days here at home with my family!
 

Precious Gems

Compiled by Lois Breneman
Thanks to all the moms who allowed me to include their children's quotes in Heart to Heart!
 
I love the sweet time at the end of our day. We all pile into Peyton's room (mostly because it's gated) for our devotions and prayer time. Logan (7) asked to pray tonight (a first for him!!) and this is how it went:
"Dear Jesus, Please make it be sunny tomorrow. Today was too much rain, and I want to swim. Please help MawMaw's foot to get better. Help us to be good and not fight, and to be nice to each other. Good luck, Jesus!"
Oh how I love his precious heart! Had to stifle a giggle though as he closed his prayer with "Good luck, Jesus." ~ Amanda in Virginia
 
At a beautiful outdoor wedding last night with the cicadas buzzing away. They paused and about the time the bride and groom were starting to exchange rings you could hear the buzzing start up again. Malakai (7) whispers loud enough for those around us to hear: "NO! Don't do it!!"
Unfortunately, those guests didn't realize he was talking to the Cicadas... Not the bride and groom! ~ Danielle in Alabama
 
A conversation with my twelve year old while on a bike ride through the soccer fields (next to where they have filled in our city pool):
Ella - Someday they will be turning this land into an industrial complex, and while they are digging, they will hit concrete and say, "Wow! I think this is a pool. They used to use these before the IPod 60 could regulate the humidity around you to feel like you are in water." ~ Beth in Ohio
 
The boys were playing with blocks yesterday and I was down the hall listening to them. Jeremiah (3) hums or sings constantly. It's like he has his own soundtrack playing in his head so yesterday I couldn't help but smile when he broke out it with "God's not dead! He's surely alive! He's living on the inside roaring like a lion!" ~ Heather in Virginia

Our memory verse for today is, "Be nice to one another without grumbling or complaining." One of our five-year-olds said, "Be nice to one another without crumbling or playing." ~ Elizabeth in Virginia
 
Backseat conversation. Amiya (7) making up a story about a Queen (lives in Alabama) who had 3 sets of twins.
Malakai (7): "Whhhoooaaa that's a WHOLE lot of child birthing going on!" ~ Danielle in Alabama
 
So we're driving down the road and my daughter is remembering the wreck we were in a year ago, and we are talking how the firemen come every time you wreck. She remembered that when she was crying the firemen comforted her and said it was okay to cry. She then asked me, "Well, since he was so nice, should I marry a fireman?!" ~ Jessica in Virginia
 

A Well Prepared Home

Used with permission by Suzanne Gill

Never in my lifetime has the future of young families seemed so challenging and uncertain.  In light of all the uncertainties, I would like to encourage you to be as the Proverbs 31 woman who watches diligently over the ways of her household.  Part of that is providing food for her home.  Food that is not just convenient but strengthens the body and nourishes them for their health's sakes.  I know what a challenge that is when your are rushed here and there for activities that are all very important.

But I would like you to consider that she is also prepared for the 'winter' season.  That can mean more than the 'cold' season.  It could mean any type of change or emergency situation.  I would like to encourage you to create a well prepared home.

 

  • Stock one to three months of food items.  Have a food source that can reproduce if there is a long term shortage (chickens, rabbits, ...).
  • Make sure you have a complete first aid kit.  Your kit should enable you to weather a storm, should you be unable to get to a doctor or hospital right away.  Know first aid essentials.  Learn how to make silver, which is a natural antibiotic.
  • Have a clean water source that will work in your circumstances, whether filtered water, a hand pump well, rain barrel, etc.

All this may seem just too overwhelming to some and others may be stocked to the hilt.  Remember we are to watch over our households and Jesus Christ has promised to lead us and guide us in all truth.  Prayerfully go about your preparations.  Begin somewhere and keep at it until you have peace that you have done what you are able to do, and trust Him.
 
16 She considers a field and buys it; From her profits she plants a vineyard. 17 She girds herself with strength, And strengthens her arms. 18 She perceives that her merchandise is good, And her lamp does not go out by night.
 
Proverbs 31:16-18 (NKJV)
 
Suzanne Gill holds degrees in Family, Child and Consumer Science and in Child Development from Florida State University.  She is the mother of four and grandmother of eleven.

5 Tips for Better Understanding Your Teenager

Used with permission by Momscape
http://www.momscape.com/wordpress/category/parenting-tips/
 
Do you ever feel like your connection with your teen is slipping? Here are five tactics for stopping the slip...steps you can take to get closer to them and to better understand them.

#1 Ask Questions and Listen

The first step to understanding your teen is to ask questions. Now there's a strategy here. Many teens give yes/no answers when you ask them a question. The trick is to do it when they're more likely to open up. Driving in the car seems to be a good time.

When you ask questions, make sure to listen to the answers -  even if you don't understand half of the words they're using. It's okay to ask for clarification. As you're listening, take mental notes. They'll come in handy in the next step.

#2 Google It!

If you have no idea what your child is talking about, Google it. Google the things they express interest in, the people, and even the language they use. The Urban Dictionary can be incredibly useful. For example, "Feels" - A wave of emotions that sometimes cannot be adequately explained. "Watching Back to the Future gives me all sorts of nostalgic feels."

#3 Listen

One of the best ways to better understand your teen is to listen in to see what they're talking about with their friends, and what kinds of things their friends are involved in. Try to be around them when they're with their friends. Attend events with them. Volunteer to drive them and their friends to events. And encourage them to invite their friends over.

#4 Get Involved

Start taking an active interest in your teen's interests. For example, if they're involved in the local drama club then volunteer to help out with the club. If they are active online and have their own YouTube channel, then by all means watch that channel but also watch the other YouTubers that your child follows.

#5 Relax

Each generation has their own trends, language, and interests. Guaranteed, when you were a teenager your parents thought you were from another planet as well. It's the way of the world. It's okay to not be able to completely relate with your teenager. In fact, it's normal.

Do what you can to connect with them. Let them know that you're interested in their lives and then relax. You don't need to be a friend with your teenager, nor do you need to share the same interests. It's enough to let them know that you care.

The Gentle Grace of Journaling

by Michelle Gill 
www.michellegill.us
The rain tapped lightly against the window glass and fell softly off the edge of the open pane.  As I sat inside watching the clouds passing by, my thoughts all clambered together like the thunder and then I began to write...

I was first introduced to journaling when I was sixteen.  I took a local community Journal Keeping class at Roanoke College.  In that class I learned how to journal and the benefits.  Sometimes our thoughts and desires all come together like one big roar of thunder.  Writing it all down, helps us to sort.  It helps us to see what is really important.

Write whatever you want to be, wish your were, glad you are, feel deep inside, think about your mother-in-law or boss.  Write Who God is to you, Who you wish He was.  Write him a letter.  Write your thoughts on your reading in the morning or the night.  Just write!

Journaling is cleansing.  It promotes focus.  It is a discipline.

Another benefit that I have found is the discipline of thought.  At times I am intentional about my gratitude or rather I need to be intentional.  I write down things that I am thankful for each day and this in turn improves my attitude.  Some people even have a separate journal for this; it is called a gratitude or blessings journal.

Journaling also helps us to track God in our lives.  As the days busily pass and I remember to record a verse that impresses me or a word spoken, an answered prayer or unexpected detour, I can look back and see God's steps in my life.

Often I write down my prayers.  There are two benefits to this.  One, I must think through my prayer, rather than quickly spouting it out and secondly, I can record the answers which may useful for encouragement for others and myself.  Also, I can stop and record Scriptures that may go with that specific request.

Sometimes it is hard to know what to write.  A good writing exercise is to put on some instrumental music and sit in a place you can relax.  Set a timer.  Write for five minutes.  Just write whatever comes to mind.  Your initial thoughts oftentimes are junk and then as you continue to write, the real issues will come out so don't fret about what you are writing at first.

Some say that stress and repressed or misplaced emotions cause physical illnesses.  Journaling can also help relieve stress when you have no other outlet.

Journaling can benefit your life in so many ways.  Why not give it a try?