Friday, November 12, 2010

Organizational Tips

ORGANIZATIONAL TIPS
by Lois Breneman ~ Heart to Heart Newsletter
1982 ~ Revised 2004 ~ Reprint Permission Required

Once you put more order into your life, you will reap the benefits of getting more accomplished and enjoying a slower pace and a more relaxed lifestyle.

Organization is very much a matter of common sense! It is looking at a task and asking yourself, "How can I do this better to save energy or time?"

Someone has said, "People that are organized are just too lazy to get up and look for it!"


SCRIPTURE VERSES

Proverbs 31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
I Timothy 5:14 I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house...
I Corinthians 14:33 For God is not a God of confusion, but of peace.
I Corinthians 14:40 Let all things be done decently and in order.
Titus 2:3-5 Older women...encourage the younger women...to be keepers at home...


HOUSEKEEPING

Make a list for each day, a week at a time, using your family calendar, and filling in with things you need to do in the home, errands you need to run, etc. Plan the next day the night before in more detail. Use a space on your schedule for things to mention to your husband when he comes home.

Use the "Mount Vernon Method", as described in The Messies Manual by Sandra Felton. Attack and conquer one room at a time, using three boxes for (1) things to keep, (2) things to give away and (3) things to throw away.

Make your bed as soon as you get up and train each child to do the same.

Before leaving the bathroom in the a.m., clean it up.

Keep bathroom cleaning supplies in each bathroom. It only takes a minute or two, if you keep it up. Keep out of reach of young children, however.

Train your children to do as much as they can by themselves. See that they do it. Don't just expect it, but inspect it.

Have children pick up their own toys and belongings, as well as put their clean and dirty laundry in the proper places at an early age.

Tidy up the house before bedtime. This only takes a minute or two.

Leave a room as orderly as you found it. Teach your children to do the same.

Rules of the House: "If you open it, close it. If you get it out, put it away. If you sleep in it, make it up. If you take it off, hang it up. If you turn it on, turn it off. If you drop it, pick it up. If you clip it, file it. If it's not broken, don't fix it. If it hurts, comfort it. If it cries, love it."

Develop your own cleaning system, and you can have company come without too much cleaning to do.

Plan for easy maintenance. Don't buy white rugs, clothes that need ironed or dry-cleaned, long-haired dogs or a lot of knick knacks that need dusting.

Store things where they will be used.

Keep a small dustpan and brush, as well as a cloth sprayed with Endust or a small, wool dusting wand in your car. When you're waiting to pick up someone, you can do some quick cleaning and keep car dust to a minimum.

Time your jobs. They take less time than you would think. Make a list of mini jobs (jobs taking less than 10 minutes). You can do these when you see you have a few minutes before an appointment. Once the clutter is gone, the actual job takes less time than you realized.

A long-handled wool dusting wand (about $6 to $10) is a great time and energy-saving device, and cuts down on bending and stooping. It is good for hard-to-reach places as well.

When your children are playing outside, set a pitcher of ice water and cups outside, so they don't need to run in and out.

A large basin of soapy water (outside) for children to wash their hands is convenient and saves you a mess in the house. A large Tupperware dish with a lid is good to take to the park, with soapy water, so everyone can wash up well before a picnic.

When you wash your sheets, fold roughly right from the clothesline or dryer and put directly back on the beds. This saves work, time and money. No need to have more than one set of sheets per bed--only extras for company.

When you wash towels, there is no need to fold all of them. Some can be hung up where needed. Skip the fabric softner for more absorbent towels.

Fold towels lengthwise first, so they will be ready to hang up when you need them, without rearranging the fold.

Clean out your refrigerator the day before you grocery shop.

Keep up with laundry daily or every two days, when you have children. When they leave home, you will look for dirty clothes to wash!

Example of a cleaning schedule:
(This is only an example. Every wife and mother will have a different schedule - whatever works best for her family's needs. This is just a guide.)

Mon. Take trash out
Dust and vacuum main floor
Clean kitchen appliances and cupboards
Wash kitchen floor
Tues. Wash sheets, hang out to dry
Clean out refrigerator
Sewing, crafts or hobby
Wed. Cook dinner in crock-pot
Run errands and grocery shop
Thurs. Clean bathrooms
Sweep porches, steps and sidewalk
Do one special job (see list below) - More, if you have a spurt of
energy
Fri. Dust and vacuum upstairs and downstairs.
Sat. Bake, cook ahead, sew or family outing.
Freeze food for lunches


Special Cleaning Jobs:
1. Clean silver and light fixtures
2. Wash windows
3. Wax car
4. Clean pots and pans
5. Clean and organize toy room
6. Clean sofas and chairs
7. Shampoo carpet
8. Deep Clean Gertrude's room - cobwebs, walls, baseboards, under
furniture, etc.
9. Deep Clean Hortense,'s room
10. Deep Clean Buford's room
11. Deep Clean master bedroom
12. Clean closet and drawers - Gertrude's
13. Clean closet and drawers - Hortense's
14. Clean closet and drawers - Buford's
15. Clean closet and drawers - master bedroom
16. Clean filing box and night stands
17. Clean storage area
18. Clean laundry room
19. Clean family room
20 Clean recreation room
21. Clean study
22. Deep Clean bathrooms - ceiling, walls, baseboards, tile, etc.
23. Clean pantry
24. Clean kitchen cupboards
25. Clean coat closet
26. Clean hall closet
27. Clean game closet
28. Clean family room closet
29. Wash front and back of house (wood) and porches
30. Clean out buffet and China closet drawers.

* This list must be written out to match the jobs that need done in your own home. Another method of cleaning your house is to do all the ceilings in the entire house at one time, wash all walls, wash all woodwork, clean tops of all door frames, etc. Do what works best for you.


KITCHEN

For a pretty tablecloth that does not need washed (on a round or oval table), cut desired fabric two inches larger around the edge of the table, sew 1/4 inch elastic around the edge, pulling elastic tightly as you sew. Then do exactly the same with clear, heavy plastic from a department or fabric store. You can even make the cloth tablecloth reversible. Put the cloth tablecloth on the table first, then the plastic one. No more slipping, sliding or needing to launder your tablecloth! A tablecloth adds color to your kitchen, yet with this method spills won't matter as much any more! In twenty years, I have had just two tablecloths in my kitchen, yet they are both still like new, because of the durable plastic over them. If using vinyl for a tablecloth, of course, the plastic is not necessary, since the vinyl can simply be wiped off, yet there are many lovely designs to match your kitchen decorations.

Recipe files - Use divisions (apples, eggs, cheese, fish, chicken, ground beef, yeast breads, quick breads, muffins, appetizers, beverages, Jello, salads, dressings, cookies, dessert bars, pies, breakfast dishes, children's recipes, etc.)

Recipe files can be made to attach just below your kitchen cabinet, like some small space-saver appliances. If your husband is handy with tools, he could do it for you.

Categorize coupons - Mark coupons that say "no expiration date" with a magic marker. Those are worth more to you. File those in alphabetical order in a small box. A stationery box works well. On coupons with dates, circle the dates, so you won't need to look for expiration dates. Or they can be filed in envelopes, according to the months.

When items are on sale, stock up to save time and money. Use double coupons, if you can save. You may find that it is easy to stock up on the following items: Shampoo, conditioners, toothpaste, toothbrushes, soups, dish detergents, cereals, catsup, laundry detergents, soap bars, frozen juices, canned food, Jello, tissues, frozen food, ice cream, toilet tissue, school supplies, cleaning supplies, almost any staples. Be aware of expiration dates, especially for juices, mayonnaise and salad dressings.

When you open the last ketchup, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, etc., add it to the grocery list. Encourage every family member to do so. It's frustrating to start to start a recipe and not have all the necessary ingredients.

Clean the kitchen as you go. Don't leave all the mess until last. Fill the sink with hot, soapy water and allow your dirty dishes to soak while you eat.

Set the breakfast table before you go to bed at night. A good job for a child.

Delegate household work. Children need to learn how to do household work. They will be glad someday that you taught them and gave them that responsibility, even though they don't thank you now!

Plan meals ahead, using family favorites, as well as some new recipes - 1, 2, 3, or 4 weeks ahead.

Make and freeze the main part of one month's meals all at once. The book, Once A Month Cooking, by Mimi Wilson and Mary Beth Lagerborg has lots of ideas and great recipes for this method, and you can use your favorites too.

Sit down to do jobs, if you possibly can. Peeling potatoes, snapping green beans, etc.

Make use of your "electronic maids" to save you time and energy. When is the last time you let your crock-pot work for you?

Learn how to get the most out of your microwave oven. Read up on it.

Color code your drinking glasses. Each family member can use a certain color every day and set them back on the counter top. Only one glass per person per day for less washing. If having milk or juice, each person needs to be sure the glasses are rinsed out well in between.

Grocery shop early in the day. There's no crowd and you save time.

Store your cookbooks in a cabinet, along with a small tissue box standing on its side. This saves space, and yet it is handy.

Buy meat on sale and stock your freezer only at those times. Make lots of hamburgers all at once, shaping patties for each member of the family (Dad gets a large one, Toddler gets a small one). Place a square of wax paper between each patty. They'll separate easily even when frozen, by using a knife, but be careful. Prepare meatloaf in large quantities also to freeze for later use.

A vitamin organizer can be purchased for organizing supplements. An organizer by Shaklee can also be used for picnics to carry sugar, salt, pepper, coffee, creamer, etc. It could also be used for spices in camping.

Plan certain Sunday dinners that can be made simply in the oven or crock-pot, while you are in church. List them in your notebook for easy reference.

The Sunday evening meal can be extremely simple. If you have had a big meal after church, you won't need much. Peanut butter crackers, fruit, and ice cream may be plenty. List your favorite Sunday evening meals for easy reference also.

You may want to try rolling your kitchen towels and washcloths, rather than folding them. They may stay neater for you, and you can rotate them easier.

For storing salad dressing mixes, taco seasoning mixes, Kool Aid, etc., stand them on end in a shallow box to keep them orderly in your pantry or cupboard.

Midget cups from Tupperware are great for storing things ahead of time for lunches. (raisins, sunflower seeds, peanuts, salad dressing, etc.) They are also nice for vitamins when going on a trip, with one day's vitamins in each cup.

You'd be surprised how much information you can get inside those cabinet doors! Tape up a spice chart, a stain chart, a chart telling the best months to buy various items, a substitute chart for cooking ( 1 ounce baking chocolate = 3 Tbsp. cocoa + 1 Tbsp shortening).

If you have storage shelves in your basement for canned goods, food from Sam's, appliances you seldom use, etc., you can prevent them from collecting dust, yet still see what you have. Purchase clear, heavy plastic from a department or fabric store. It comes in 45" widths. Tack the plastic at the top of the shelves and let it hang down to the floor in 45" widths. Overlap pieces about 3" so you can reach inside to get what you need. This works great!


MISCELLANEOUS ORGANIZATIONAL TIPS

Make a weekly schedule of your family's favorite TV and radio programs with the times and stations listed. There are many educational TV programs which teach cooking, painting, drawing, sewing, gardening, vocabulary, science, math, first aid, geography, language, etc. Many of these are very worthwhile. There are also many Christian radio and TV programs which are available, though discernment is needed. By listing special ones that would benefit your family, you would have all that information readily available at your fingertips.

Buy or make gifts to keep on hand, for birthdays, weddings, new babies, graduations, etc., so you don't need to run to the store so often, and be tempted to buy more than you should. If you come across a nice gift that is a real bargain, you might want to purchase that item in multiples to have on hand as gifts.

Store all your gift-wrapping items together - paper, bows, tape, scissors, cards, pen. A waste can is great for storing rolls of gift-wrap. Plain Christmas gift-wrap in a solid green, red, gold or silver is appropriate year round.

Plan a day to run errands all at once. List the places you need to go to and what you need to buy or drop off there. This will eliminate back-tracking or forgetting. Planning your day in a clockwise manner to eliminate as many left-hand turns as possible also saves time.

Learn to double your time by combining several activities. While waiting in the doctor's office, for children in a carpool or while watching TV, you could look at a magazine, read or scan a book, write a letter, cross-stitch or do mending. Or you could jump on a trampoline, ride an exercise bike or walk, while you memorize Scripture, pray or listen to a tape.

Make a prayer list on large index cards with various headings: (country; church; husband; self; each child -- salvation, obedience, good self esteem, friends, to do their best in school work and learning, good health, to develop a special talent, to live for the Lord and for a Christian marriage partner of God's choice for that child when the time comes; relatives; friends; pastor; missionaries by names and needs; Christian ministries; etc.)

Choose birthday and anniversary cards for friends and relatives for one year at a time. Address the envelopes, add the return address label, write the special date at the spot where the stamp will go and sign the card. You may want to embellish the envelope with rubber stamps designs. When it is time to mail the card, add a note or letter, if you wish (or have the time). If not, lick it, stamp it, mail it and it is done! Record on your calendar the day you should mail the card, so you remember to mail it on time.

A large calendar is a great way to keep track of a busy family. Have everyone write in his or her own appointments in easy-to-spot, different colored inks. Teenagers should be responsible for getting their activities posted before the day of the activity so plans can be made.

Have a file folder system. If you can't keep up with the magazine and newspaper articles, tear them out, fold and file them. Read them when you can. This will save on a lot of clutter in your house. You will know where to look for information when you need it. Examples of categories: Recipes, Health, Cancer Prevention, Gardening, Children under Two, Children, Teenagers, Religion in the News, Home Schooling, Public Schools, Christian Schools, Alcohol and Driving, Appliances, Warranties, Use and Care Booklets, Roanoke, Virginia Attractions, Abortion, Interior Design, Colleges, Weddings, Graduation, Marriage, Parenting, Crafts, etc.

Phone numbers to post by your phone: Time and Temperature, Emergency, Weather, Poison Control, Children's Stories, City or County Extension Agent (Home Economist and Horticulturist available to answer your questions).

Write names and phone numbers of people you call most often on a large colorful index card. Laminate and keep by phone. Make one for each phone in the house. This saves a lot of time when in a hurry.

Keep addresses in a recipe box on 3 x 5 index cards. If there is a change, you can keep it up to date and not run out of room, without erasing or crossing out.
When you have a difficult decision, you and your husband may want to list the advantages and disadvantages on paper to help you see the situation in black and white. This really helps in making wise decisions!

A carrying caddy is nice for audio cassette tapes. They fit exactly.

The next time you pack for a trip, make a list of things you need and have a few copies Xeroxed. This will save making a list each time, and you'll never forget panty hose, an umbrella or a blow dryer. Have a section for the various seasons. List things like "Arrangements for mail and newspaper," "Arrangements for pets." Have teens make their own list, Xerox, and pack for themselves.

Store all your correspondence items in one place: stationery, cards, pens, stamps, return address labels, envelopes, stickers, rubber stamps, etc.

Make a pocket wall organizer to store things that normally make a pile of clutter in a special place at everyone's house. Clear pocket organizers can also be purchased. Label the pockets temporarily with Post It Notes. After you decide what you want to store in the pockets, you could label in a more permanent way. Some suggested labels for pockets could be the following: Menus, Home Schooling, Church, Letters I Owe, Immediate Attention, Things to File, Receipts, Correspondence Record, Gifts Given, Craft Ideas, Cute Quotes from Kids, Quotes & Poems, $ Saving Ideas, Items Ordered, Refunding, Grocery List, Youth Group, Pens, Index Cards, Scissors, etc.

Shelf expanders are great if you need more room for storage.

Storage boxes are nice for storing children's clothing, toys, or as a file box.

Clear plastic shoe pocket organizers are nice for storage, because they are "see through." These are great for inside the coat closet for gloves, scarves, umbrellas, sunglasses. Also great inside the hall closet for small medical supplies so you can see them at a glance (Band-Aids, small tubes of meds, thermometer, bulb syringe, samples from mail.

Clear plastic shoe boxes are also nice for storage. Sturdy cardboard shoe boxes (labeled) also work well. Cover with fabric and glue into place for nice looking storage!

Shoe boxes are great for gift boxes. You can wrap the lid separately from the box with wrapping paper, and then wrap the bottom, as well. If you need a quick gift, just get a gift from your box with pre-purchased or pre-made gifts, and put it in your pre-wrapped box with some tissue paper! Here's where your organization pays off!

If using a filing cabinet, purchase the deepest one you can find. The same amount of wall space is needed, no matter how deep, so you might as well get the maximum use.

Keep scrap paper and a pen near each phone, as well as in the bathroom. You'll be surprised at all the ideas you'll have while putting on your makeup. Jot them down. A dull pencil in this case is better than the sharpest mind.

A divided tray can be used as a makeup tray.

Bricks are helpful in raising up items in the back of a deep shelf so you can see everything at a glance. Cover bricks with contact paper, if you wish.

Small pieces of scrap lumber are useful in creating more shelf space. Stand two pieces of 2 x 4" scraps on their sides. Lay a divided tray or a board for a shelf over the top, and you have an extra shelf.

Small baskets are handy for storing all kinds of things. If your grocery store displays fruits or vegetables in baskets, go early in the morning to your store and ask if you may have the empty baskets, if they just toss them. Our grocery store used to have mushroom baskets that were free for the asking. Cloth liners could be sewn for them to be used for many different items.

Rubbermaid turntables are great for spices (in alphabetical order like at the store, so you can find them easily), medicine, cleaning supplies, etc. You can't have too many of these!

Desk organizers help to keep paper clips, rubber bands, etc. orderly. Tiny boxes in a desk drawer also work well to separate items. Stationery and jewelry boxes work.

Six Drawer Organizers are great organizational and storage helpers! Multiple uses!

Have two clothes rods in your closet halfway across (upper for blouses and lower for skirts). Lower the rods in a child's room so he/she can reach them.

Store socks in drawers, folded in half, and standing on end vertically, back to back to each other. Use small boxes in the drawer to separate from other clothing items, if necessary. Underwear and boxer shorts both work well if folded into thirds (left side to center and right side to center), then folded in half the other way. Store in the same way as the socks. Handkerchiefs store neatly in this manner as well. This method helps keep a drawer neat and gives visibility to every item in the drawer! Works great!

You may want to keep a weight chart for you and your husband, so you know when you need to cut down and lose a few pounds. Then again, you may not!

For your own personal Bible study time, some methods that may be helpful are: (1) Read through the Bible; (2) Study one particular book at a time; (3) Do topical studies - Example: Child Discipline, peace and contentment, the fruit of the spirit, courage, prayer, marriage, forgiveness, work, giving, etc.; (4) Study a verse word by word; (5) Write down all the verses you have memorized. Review them; (6) Write a poem centered around a Scripture verse or doctrine. (7) Sing hymns and choruses.

A neat and orderly way to store necklaces and bracelets is by hanging them on push pins stuck into a bulletin board, cork board, or the side or back wall of your closet. They are out of sight if using the inside of your closet and don't collect dust.

Store your earrings in a shallow drawer by lining the drawer with a towel or piece of fabric that will not slide around. Place your earrings in groups according to color. This makes them easy to find at a glance.

If you have ever locked your car keys in your house, your car or your trunk, this suggestion may help. Attach your house and car keys to your purse with a matching shoestring, sturdy ribbon or a key clip. This also prevents your keys from getting lost inside your purse. Keep an extra set of keys in your wallet, as well, in case you lock your keys in car. Then hang on to your purse!

Please remember that no one uses all of these ideas at any one time. These tips and ideas are not sent to put a guilt trip on you! I just hope some of these tips will help to make your life a little easier! Try some new ideas this week. I need to work on many of these myself!

God's blessings,
Lois


Christmas Stories and Poems, Part II

IN THIS ISSUE:
HOW DOES JESUS COMPARE WITH SANTA CLAUS?
JESUS IS THE REASON FOR THE SEASON!
CHRISTMAS LOVE
A CHRISTMAS STORY
TWO BABES IN A MANGER
CHRISTMAS --- A GIFT ALL WRAPPED IN SWADDLING CLOTHES
CHRISTMAS FROM THE HEART
YES, VIRGINIA, THERE IS A JESUS!
A CHRISTMAS POEM
A PROMISE IS A PROMISE
GRANDMA'S HOME FOR CHRISTMAS!
A CHRISTMAS TRUE OR FALSE QUIZ
JUST A FEW OF THE BIBLE PROPHECIES FULFILLED
ANSWERS TO CHRISTMAS QUIZ
THE PERPETUAL CALENDAR




HOW DOES JESUS COMPARE WITH SANTA CLAUS?
author unknown

Santa lives at the North Pole ...
JESUS is everywhere.
Santa rides in a sleigh ...
JESUS rides on the wind and walks on the water.
Santa comes but once a year ...
JESUS is an ever present help.

Santa fills your stockings with goodies ...
JESUS supplies all your needs.
Santa comes down your chimney uninvited ...
JESUS stands at your door and knocks,
And then enters your heart when invited.

You have to wait in line to see Santa ...
JESUS is as close as the mention of His name.
Santa lets you sit on his lap ...
JESUS lets you rest in His arms.

Santa doesn't know your name, all he can say is
"Hi little boy or girl, what's your name?"
JESUS knew our name before we did.
Not only does He know our name,
He knows our address too.
He knows our history and future and
He even knows how many hairs are on our heads.

Santa has a belly like a bowl full of jelly ...
JESUS has a heart full of love.
All Santa can offer is HO HO HO ...
JESUS offers health, help and hope.

Santa says "You better not cry" ...
JESUS says "Cast all your cares on me for I care for you."
Santa's little helpers make toys ...
JESUS makes new life, mends wounded hearts,
Repairs broken homes and builds mansions.

Santa may make you chuckle but ...
JESUS gives you joy that is your strength.
While Santa puts gifts under your tree ...
JESUS became our gift and died on a tree.

It's obvious there is really no comparison.
We need to remember WHO Christmas is all about.
We need to put Christ back in CHRISTmas,
Jesus is still the reason for the season.
Yes, Jesus is better, he is even better than Santa Claus.


JESUS IS THE REASON FOR THE SEASON!
Twas' the night Jesus came and all through the house,
Not a person was praying, not one in the house.
The Bible was left on the shelf without care,
For no one thought Jesus would come there.
The children were dressing to crawl into bed,
Not once ever kneeling or bowing their head.
And Mom in the rocking chair with baby on her lap,
Was watching the Late Show as I took a nap.
When out of the east there rose such a clatter,
I sprang to my feet to see what's the matter.
Away to the window I flew like a flash,
Tore open the shutters and lifted the sash.
When what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But Angels proclaiming that Jesus was here.
The light of His face made me cover my head,
It was Jesus returning just like He'd said.
And though I possessed worldly wisdom and wealth,
I cried when I saw Him in spite of myself.
In the Book of Life which he held in his hand,
Was written the name of every saved woman and man.
He spoke not a word as he searched for my name,
When He said "it is not here" I hung my head in shame.
The peoples who's names had been written with love,
He gathered to take to his Father above.
With those who were ready He rose without a sound,
While all the others were left standing around.
I fell to my knees but it was too late,
I waited too long and thus sealed my fate.
I stood and I cried as they rose out of sight,
Oh, if only I'd known that this was the night.
In the words of this poem the meaning is clear,
The coming of Jesus is now drawing near.
There's only one life and when comes the last call,
We'll find out that the Bible was true after all...


CHRISTMAS LOVE
Author unknown - Thanks to Linda Stevenson in Virginia for this story!

Each December, I vowed to make Christmas a calm and peaceful experience. I had cut back on nonessential obligations extensive card writing, endless baking, decorating, and even overspending. Yet still, I found myself exhausted, unable to appreciate the precious family moments, and of course, the true meaning of Christmas.

My son, Nicholas, was in kindergarten that year. It was an exciting season for a six year old. For weeks, he'd been memorizing songs for his school's "Winter Pageant." I didn't have the heart to tell him I'd be working the night of the production. Unwilling to miss his shining moment, I spoke with his teacher. She assured me there'd be a dress rehearsal the morning of the presentation. All parents unable to attend that evening were welcome to come then. Fortunately, Nicholas seemed happy with the compromise.


So, the morning of the dress rehearsal, I filed in 10 minutes early, found a spot on the cafeteria floor and sat down. Around the room, I saw several other parents quietly scampering to their seats. As I waited, the students were led into the room. Each class, accompanied by their teacher, sat cross-legged on the floor. Then, each group, one by one, rose to perform their song. Because the public school system had long stopped referring to the holiday as "Christmas," I didn't expect anything other than fun, commercial entertainment songs of reindeer, Santa Claus, snowflakes and good cheer. So, when my son's class rose to sing, "Christmas Love," I was slightly taken aback by its bold title. Nicholas was aglow, as were all of his classmates, adorned in fuzzy mittens, red sweaters, and bright snowcaps upon their heads.

Those in the front row center stage held up large letters, one by one, to spell out the title of the song. As the class would sing "C is for Christmas," a child would hold up the letter C. Then, "H is for Happy", and on and on, until each child holding up his portion had presented the complete message, "Christmas Love". The performance was going smoothly, until suddenly, we noticed her a small, quiet, girl in the front row holding the letter "M" upside down totally unaware her letter "M" appeared as a "W."

The audience of 1st through 6th graders snickered at this little one's mistake. But she had no idea they were laughing at her, so she stood tall, proudly holding her "W." Although many teachers tried to shush the children, the laughter continued until the last letter was raised, and we all saw it together. A hush came over the audience and eyes began to widen. In that instant, we understood the reason we were there, why we celebrated the holiday in the first place, why even in the chaos, there was a purpose for our festivities. For when the last letter was held high, the message read loud and clear: CHRIST WAS LOVE.



A CHRISTMAS STORY
By David Moore

It was only five days before Christmas. The spirit of the season hadn't yet caught up with me, even though cars packed the parking lot of our Houston area Target Shopping Center. Inside the store, it was worse.

Shopping carts and last minute shoppers jammed the aisles. Why did I come today? I wondered. My feet ached almost as much as my head. My list contained names of several people who claimed they wanted nothing, but I knew their feelings would be hurt if I didn't buy them something. Buying or someone who had everything and deploring the high cost of items, I considered gift-buying anything but fun.

Hurriedly, I filled my shopping cart with last minute items and proceeded to the long checkout lines. I picked the shortest but it looked as if it would mean at least a 20 minute wait.

In front of me were two small children a boy of about 10 and a younger girl about 5. The boy wore a ragged coat. Enormously large, tattered tennis shoes jutted far out in front of his much too short jeans. He clutched several crumpled dollar bills in his grimy hands. The girl's clothing resembled her brother's. Her head was a matted mass of curly hair. Reminders of an evening meal showed on her small face. She carried a beautiful pair of shiny, gold house slippers. As the Christmas music sounded in the store's stereo system, the girl hummed along off-key but happily. When we finally approached the checkout register, the girl carefully placed the shoes on the counter. She treated them as though they were a treasure.

The clerk rang up he bill. "That will be $6.09" the clerk said, as the boy laid his crumpled dollars atop the stand while he searched his pockets finally coming up with $3.12.

"I guess we will have to put them back," he bravely said. "We will come back some other time, maybe tomorrow."

With that statement, a soft sob broke from the little girl. "But Jesus would have loved these shoes," she cried.

"Well, we'll go home and work some more. Don't cry. We'll come back," he said.

Quickly I handed $3.00 to the cashier. These children had waited in line for a long time. And, after all, it was Christmas. Suddenly a pair of arms came around me and a small voice said, "Thank you, Sir."

"What did you mean when you said Jesus would like the shoes?" I asked. The small boy answered, "Our mommy is sick and going to heaven. Daddy said she might go before Christmas to be with Jesus."

The girl spoke, "My Sunday school teacher said the streets in heaven are shiny gold, just like these shoes. Won't mommy be beautiful walking on those streets to match these shoes?"
My eyes flooded as I looked into her tear streaked face. "Yes," I answered, "I am sure she will."
Silently I thanked God for using these children to remind me of the true spirit of giving. Christmas is not about the amount of money paid, not the amount of gifts purchased, nor trying to impress friends and relatives.

Christmas is about the love in your heart to share with those as Jesus Christ has shared with each of us. Christmas is about the Birth of Jesus whom God sent to show the world how much he really loves us.



TWO BABES IN A MANGER
Author unknown - Wonderful Story!

In 1994, two Americans answered an invitation from the Russian Department of Education to teach morals and ethics (based on biblical principles) in the public schools. They were invited to teach at prisons, businesses, the fire and police departments and a large orphanage. About 100 boys and girls who had been abandoned, abused, and left in the care of a government-run program were in the orphanage.

They relate the following story in their own words:
It was nearing the holiday season, 1994, time for our orphans to hear, for the first time, the traditional story of Christmas. We told them about Mary and Joseph arriving in Bethlehem. Finding no room in the inn, the couple went to a stable, where the baby Jesus was born and placed in a manger. Throughout the story, the children and orphanage staff sat in amazement as they listened. Some sat on the edges of their stools, trying to grasp every word.

Completing the story, we gave the children three small pieces of cardboard to make a crude manger. Each child was given a small paper square, cut from yellow napkins I had brought with me. No colored paper was available in the city. Following instructions, the children tore the paper and carefully laid strips in the manger for straw. Small squares of flannel (cut from a worn-out nightgown an American lady was throwing away as she left Russia), were used for the baby's blanket. A doll-like baby was cut from tan felt we had brought from the United States.
The orphans were busy assembling their manger as I walked among them to see if they needed any help. All went well until I got to one table where little Misha sat. He looked to be about 6-years-old and had finished his project. As I looked at the little boy's manger, was startled to see not one, but two babies in the manger. Quickly, I called for the translator to ask the lad why there were two babies in the manger. Crossing his arms in front of him and looking at this completed manger scene, the child began to repeat the story very seriously. For such a young boy, who had only heard the Christmas story once, he related the happenings accurately -- until he came to the part where Mary put the baby Jesus in the manger.

Then Misha started to ad-lib. He made up his own ending to the story as he said, "And when Mary laid the baby in the manger, Jesus looked at me and asked me if I had a place to stay. I told him I have no mama and I have no papa, so I don't have any place to stay. Then Jesus told me I could stay with Him. But I told him I couldn't, because I didn't have a gift to give Him like everybody else did.

But I wanted to stay with Jesus so much, so I thought about what I had that maybe I could use for a gift. I thought maybe if I kept Him warm, that would be a good gift.

"So I asked Jesus, 'If I keep You warm, will that be a good enough gift?' And Jesus told me, 'If you keep Me warm, that will be the best gift anybody ever gave Me.' So I got into the manger, and then Jesus looked at me and He told me I could stay with Him -- for always."

As little Misha finished his story, his eyes brimmed full of tears that splashed down his little cheeks. Putting his hand over his face, his head dropped to the table and his shoulders shook as he sobbed and sobbed. The little orphan had found someone who would never abandon nor abuse him, Someone who would stay with him -- FOR ALWAYS!

And the Americans? They had learned the lesson they had come there to teach -- that it is not what you have in your life, but Who you have in your life that really counts. We all should give thanks for the people that "keep us warm" in life; and for all of God's many blessings to us: freedom from want, life, love, togetherness, and for the enduring love of Jesus Christ, the one person who keeps us warm and safe for always.

"And my God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Now to our God and Father be the glory forever and ever. Amen." Philippians 4:19-20 (NASV)


CHRISTMAS --- A GIFT ALL WRAPPED IN SWADDLING CLOTHES
By Dr. Ralph F. Wilson

Christmas morning of my fifth year I woke to find a wooden rifle under the tree, carefully carved by my dad, complete with a dowel barrel and a hole for my trigger finger. I can almost smell the fresh paint mingled with the fragrance of pine branches. And though I don't recall playing with it, I remember the awe I felt in knowing my dad made it just for me.

Not all gifts, however, are so personally intended. After that horrendous brown vase I got at a Christmas party, at least I had the perverse joy of watching someone open "How to Raise Rhesus Monkeys" that had been foisted off on me the year before. Then there's a punch-out calendar to sit on my desk reminding me all year long to buy Farmer's Insurance. And the mortuary that gives away bottles of hand lotion every year--my family always calls it "embalming fluid."

What takes the joy out of giving are the obligatory gifts - the expected office exchange, the box of candy you keep by the door to hand the Smiths when they come to call as you know they will, once a year. And don't forget the gift for great Aunt Hattie whom you haven't liked since she pinched your cheeks when you were little.

Really difficult are the gifts that come with long invisible strings dangling from them, gifts so very expensive that you could never afford to reciprocate. Gold and diamond jewelry from a suitor. You don't want to hurt his feelings, but .... I wonder how Mary and Joseph felt as they watched richly robed wise men kneel before their child offering alabaster jars of precious myrrh, inlaid boxes heavy with the scent of frankincense, and iron-bound chests laden with gold--gifts fit for a king. How could they possibly repay?

I guess the most troublesome gift at Christmas is the Child Himself. What do we say? We smile nicely and pat the humbly-wrapped present. "How nice of you, God, to have been so thoughtful," we mumble politely. But the Gift lies on the dresser unopened year after year. Perhaps because we don't expect to find much inside except a useless religious trinket. Perhaps because we don't feel any need for God just now. Perhaps because we know that if we unwrap the Gift we'll be obligated to the Giver beyond what we can ever repay. And so it sits ... and so it sits until in loneliness, in pain, in utter desperation we tug at the ribbons and tear off the wrappings, hoping against hope we'll find inside what we've longed for. And so it is. Unconditional Love!

God sent a gift one Christmas morn, a wondrous gift, a precious gift. God sent a gift one Christmas morn by peasant maid and craftsman hand. God sent a gift one Christmas morn and wrapped it up in swaddling clothes, For me, He did. Yes, for me He did. God sent a gift one Christmas morn and wrapped it up in swaddling clothes. For me. Tomorrow is not promised us, nor any other day, so let us make the most of it. It is only once that we pass this way.


CHRISTMAS FROM THE HEART
A story by Nancy as posted in Sermon Fodder

When I was 14 years old (same age as my daughter is today), my Mom and I didn't have money for a Christmas dinner, much less gifts.

I knew she was sad about it and I was determined we wouldn't let it get us down. Homemade gifts are nice but I wasn't very imaginative and too broke for supplies. I decided to give my Mom something I treasured myself -- the one nice piece of jewelry I owned, a gold cross necklace.
I cleaned it, made sure there were no knots in the chain and wrapped it in the prettiest paper I could find. I was so excited. I couldn't wait for her to open it.

Single moms have it hard (as I know first hand now) and I really wanted to see her smile. We always opened our gifts on Christmas Eve night and that afternoon, I could wait no longer.
I asked if we could "have Christmas" early. I anticipated that Christmas more than when I knew I was getting a lot of nice gifts. I didn't expect to get anything that year. It was about giving.

I handed her the little box, hugged and kissed her and wished her a Merry Christmas. I waited anxiously for her to open it but she just sat there with the box in her hands and looked at it.
I remember the look on Mom's face was a mixture of sadness and serenity. She knew her greatest gift to me was her love. After what seemed a long time, she looked at me and said, "I have something for you too." She reached into her pocket, pulled out another small box, placed it in my hands, and told me although it was not much, it was filled with love.

I was quite curious and little scared. I knew money was tight and hoped Mom hadn't spent money on something we couldn't afford. There was a little velvet box inside and when I lifted the lid, there was a tiny ring with a diamond chip in the center. In a note, she told me the ring was 23 years old, she hoped it brought me good luck...and "I love you."

I got a huge lump in my throat and looked at her. She smiled and told me it had been her wedding band from my dad. It was now mine. I slipped it on my finger and hugged my Mom.
She opened my gift and when she saw the necklace, big tears filled her eyes. She asked me to put it on her. She held the necklace and told me she thought it was our best Christmas ever. I could only nod my head in agreement.

This Christmas, I give thanks for Mom and treasure every memory we shared. You see, my Mom has advanced Alzheimer's disease and no longer knows me. But I look at "our" ring and remember her gentle, wise spirit and give thanks God blessed me with her.

But that's not the end of the story. Our home was burglarized four years ago. One of the items stolen was that little ring. I had left all my jewelry at home for safekeeping because it was Memorial Day weekend and I was going to the lake. I was totally heart broken when I found out the ring was gone. Of course, so were her diamond rings, my wedding band, engagement ring, etc., but it was THAT ring I grieved for the most.

I wrote a letter to our local paper and begged whoever stole it to "PLEASE return it by mail anonymously."

A few weeks went by with no response and then one day a police detective showed up at my door. He held out a Kleenex and asked me to identify the item inside. It was my ring! I have never found out where or how he got it but it remains on my finger to this day.

So as we all go through the holidays, let us remember it's what we give from the heart that holds the most value.


YES, VIRGINIA, THERE IS A JESUS!
from Daily Wisdom

Over one hundred years ago, in 1897, one of the most famous letters ever written, was sent to the editorial page of the New York Sun. A small child named Virginia had written the editors of the paper asking if, indeed, Santa Claus really existed. She asked: "I am 8 years old. Some of my little friends say there is no Santa Claus. Papa says, 'if you see it in the Sun, it's so.'

Please tell me the truth, is there a Santa Claus?" The answer, from editorial writer Francis P. Church, was that yes, indeed, there is a Santa Claus. His reasoning was that; The most real things in the world are those that neither children nor men can see. This line, and the rest of his response have been repeated now, for over 100 years.

Recently, there have been many news reports about Nativity scenes being challenged in court by organizations like the American Civil Liberties Union. They claim that these creches are dangerous to the community, and a violation of the First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution. According to previous Supreme Court decisions, government entities cannot display a Nativity scene unless it is part of a larger, secular display, one that might include items such as Santa Claus, candy canes, reindeer, etc.

It is hard to imagine that such a controversy would have existed 100 years ago. In 1998, in St. Ann, Missouri, the ACLU has forced the city to remove a Nativity scene that has been displayed every year of the city's existence - 50 years. In light of this, today's Virginia might write a newspaper with this question: "I am 8 years old. Some grownups, including a group called the ACLU, say that putting up a manger in front of our city hall is dangerous. Is it dangerous because Jesus is real, or because He doesn't exist? Please tell me the truth, is there a Jesus Christ?"

Now, I can't speak for Mr. Church. The former son of a Baptist minister died in 1906. However, much of his original answer to Virginia can also apply to those who would have you believe that displaying a Nativity scene is dangerous, or, that Jesus himself might never have existed. After all, a Nativity scene is depicting an actual event. What is so dangerous about that? Or as Virginia might ask, "Is it dangerous because he is real, or because he doesn't exist?"

Church's reply today, much like the one 100 years ago, might sound something like this: "Virginia, these people are wrong. They have been affected by the skepticism of a skeptical age. They do not believe what they do not see. They think that nothing can be which is not comprehensible by their little minds. All minds, Virginia, whether they be men's or children's, are little. In this great universe of ours, man is a mere insect, an ant, in his intellect as compared with the boundless world about him, as measured by the intelligence capable of grasping the whole of truth and knowledge.

Yes, Virginia, there is a Jesus Christ. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. He really did live almost 2000 years ago, and his life was based upon love, and generosity, and kindness. Not only did He exist, but He continues to live. Denying His existence does not make Him less real. Just because you can't see Him, doesn't mean that He is not alive. People who
choose to remember His birth in a tiny stable in Bethlehem are not a danger to others, even those who do not believe that He is the Son of God. Putting up a manger scene is no less threatening than celebrating the Independence of our country, or a memorial to the end of World War II, or honoring men like George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, or Dr. Martin Luther King with holidays. All of these events and people have shaped our country and our lives, and denying the existence of any of them would not make them any less real. No Jesus? Thank God He lives, and lives forever. It has been 2000 years since He walked the earth as a man, and a thousand years from now, Virginia, nay 10 times 10,000 years from now, He will continue to make glad the hearts of those who believe in Him.



A CHRISTMAS POEM
Author unknown - Contributed by Norma Lyon of New York

'T'was the night before Christmas and all through the town
Not a sign of Baby Jesus was anywhere to be found.
The people were all busy with Christmas time chores
Like decorating, and baking, and shopping in stores.
No one sang "Away in a manger, no crib for a bed".
Instead, they sang of Santa dressed-up in bright red.
Mama watched Martha Stewart, Papa drank beer from a tap.
As hour upon hour the presents they'd wrap.
When what from the T.V. did they suddenly hear?
'Cept an ad ... which told of a big sale at Sears.
So away to the mall they all flew like a flash...
Buying things on credit ... and others with cash!
And, as they made their way home from their trip to the mall,
Did they think about Jesus? Oh, no... not at all.
Their lives were so busy with their Christmas time things.
No time to remember Christ Jesus, the King.
There were presents to wrap and cookies to bake.
How could they stop and remember who died for their sake?
To pray to the Savior... they had no time to stop.
Because they needed more time to "Shop till they dropped!"
On Wal-mart! On K-mart! On Target! On Penney's!
On Hallmark! On Zales! A quick lunch at Denny's!
From the big stores downtown to the stores at the mall;
They would dash away, dash away, and visit them all!
And up on the roof, there arose such a clatter,
As grandpa hung icicle lights up on his brand new step ladder.
He hung lights that would flash. He hung lights that would twirl.
Yet, he never once prayed to Jesus... Light of the World.
Christ's eyes... how they twinkle! Christ's Spirit... how merry!
Christ's love... how enormous! All our burdens... He'll carry!
So instead of being busy, overworked, and uptight,
Let's put Christ back in Christmas and enjoy some good nights!


A PROMISE IS A PROMISE
The pastor of the church was looking over the cradle when he noticed that the baby Jesus was missing from among the figures. Immediately he turned and went outside and saw a little boy with a red wagon, and in the wagon was the figure of the little infant, Jesus. So he walked up to the boy and said, "Well, where did you get Him, my fine friend?" The little boy replied, "I got him from the Church." And why did you take him?" The boy said, "Well, about a week before Christmas I prayed to the little Lord Jesus and I told him if he would bring me a red wagon for Christmas, I would give him a ride around the block in it."


GRANDMA'S HOME FOR CHRISTMAS!
When Joe stopped the bus to pick up a little boy for preschool, he noticed an older woman hugging him as he left the house. "Is that your grandmother?" Joe asked.

"Yes, she's come to visit us for Christmas." "How nice," he said. "Where does she live?"

"At the airport," the little boy replied. "Whenever we want her, we just go out there and get her."



A CHRISTMAS TRUE OR FALSE QUIZ
Can you separate fact from fiction in the Christmas story?
Test your knowledge by answering "T" or "F" to each statement.
Answers are at the end of this newsletter.

1. There are no records of Joseph speaking in the Christmas story.
2. The wise men were three kings from the orient.
3. The little drummer boy came to the manger after the other shepherds.
4. The star did not appear above the manger.
5. Jesus' ancestors include a prostitute, an adulterer, a woman who committed incest, and a non-Israelite.
6. The angel Gabriel appeared to Mary first and then he appeared to Joseph.
7. Mary rode a donkey from Nazareth to Bethlehem.
8. Joseph and Mary went to Bethlehem because of a decree by Caesar Augustus.
9. The wise men followed the star as it moved from their eastern land to Israel.
10. The wise men did not arrive on the night of Jesus' birth.
11. God sent a choir of chubby angels to announce Jesus' birth to the shepherds.
12. Shepherding was considered a very noble occupation.
13. Both Joseph and Mary were told that the baby was to be named "Jesus."
14. When Herod heard about Jesus he was the only one concerned about this new king.
15. The wise men found Jesus lying in a manager in the town of Bethlehem.
16. After the angels announcement the shepherds went straight to Bethlehem to see Jesus.
17. Joseph married Mary immediately after the angel appeared to him.
18. Some of the shepherds doubted and refused to believe the message they heard from the angels.



JUST A FEW OF THE BIBLE PROPHECIES FULFILLED
From "Who Is This Man Who Says He's God?" ~ Radio Bible Class ~ www.rbc.org

The Bible does not sneak up on its New Testament readers and spring a new message on them. No, the idea that a Messiah would visit the earth is not a surprise to anyone who is familiar with the Old Testament. There were plenty of signals from the prophets that this would happen. In fact, there were many specific facts about the Messiah's life predicted in the Old Testament that were fulfilled by Jesus, The following chart gives just a sampling:

PROPHECY REFERENCE FULFILLMENT
Born of a virgin Isaiah 7:14 Matthew 1:23
Born in Bethlehem Micah 5:2 Matthew 2:5
Found in Egypt Numbers 24:8 Matthew 2:15
Heals many Isaiah 53:4 Matthew 8:16
Crucified Isaiah 53:12 Matthew 27:38
No bones broken Psalm 34:20 John 19:33-36


ANSWERS TO CHRISTMAS QUIZ
1. T - There are no records of Joseph speaking in the Christmas story. I'm sure he said something, but there is absolutely no record of him speaking at all.
2. F - The wise men were three kings from the orient. The number of wise men is not mentioned. They were not kings.
3. F - The little drummer boy came to the manger after the other shepherds. What little drummer boy? There is no mention of a drummer boy in the Bible.
4. T - The star did not appear above the manger. It appeared above the house where Joseph's family was living (Matthew 2:9-11).
5. T - Jesus' ancestors include a prostitute, an adulterer, a woman who committed incest, and a non-Israelite. Rahab was a prostitute, David & Uriah's wife were adulterers, Tamar & Judah committed incest, and Ruth was from Moab. Matthew 1:3,5,6.
6. F - The angel Gabriel appeared to Mary first and then Gabriel appeared to Joseph. Trick question. Mary was first, but we don't know the name of the angel who appeared to Joseph (Matthew 1:20). It might have been Harold. You know, "Hark the Harold Angel Sings."
7. F - Mary rode a donkey from Nazareth to Bethlehem. A donkey does not appear any where in the Biblical account. She probably walked.
8. T - Joseph and Mary went to Bethlehem because of a decree by Caesar Augustus. Luke 2:1-5
9. F - The wise men followed the star as it moved from their eastern land to Israel. Apparently not. The wise men saw the star in the east (Matthew 2:2). But it did not take them to Jerusalem. In Jerusalem they asked for directions. Once leaving Jerusalem the star appeared again and led them to the house in Bethlehem (Matthew 2:9).
10. T - The wise men did not arrive on the night of Jesus' birth. The wise men arrive sometime after Jesus is born (Matthew 2:1). Jesus is called a child, rather than a baby (Matthew
2:11). He may have been as old as two (Matthew 2:7,16).
11. F - God sent a choir of chubby angels to announce Jesus' birth to the shepherds. Actually God sent an army of warrior angels. See Luke 2:13. "Company" and "host" are military terms.
12. F - Shepherding was considered a very noble occupation. In first century B.C., shepherding was close to what we would consider garbage collecting. Shepherds were unable to remain ritually pure according to Pharisaic laws and so were considered unclean. Yet God chose them for His birth announcement.
13. T - Both Joseph and Mary were told that the baby was to be named "Jesus." Yes. See Matthew 1:21 and Luke 1:31. Babies were always named by their father. God the Father gives Jesus his name.
14. F - When Herod heard about Jesus he was the only one concerned about this new king. All Jerusalem was disturbed by this news of a new king (Matthew 2:3).
15. F - The wise men found Jesus lying in a manager in the town of Bethlehem. Jesus was in a house by this time (Matthew 2:11).
16. T - After the angels announcement the shepherds went straight to Bethlehem to see Jesus.
Correct. They were excited! They did not hesitate. They did not pass "Go" and stop to collect their $200. Luke 2:15-16.
17. T - Joseph married Mary immediately after the angel appeared to him. Yes. His obedience was quick, cheerful and complete. Matthew 1:24.
18. F - Some of the shepherds doubted and refused to believe the message they heard from the angels. They went to see the baby right away, they spread the word, and they praised God for what they had been permitted to see and hear. No doubt there. Luke 2:15-20.
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